Do you wish that you die before your partner..?

@jimmy87 (475)
India
August 4, 2009 8:33pm CST
I do,because life after she is gone will be like hell.So,it's better to go for heavenly abode before her. Also,you may say that I am being jealous in this case,since if I die first then she have to live life without me,which would be very hard for her.. So,what's your view.Share them...
2 responses
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
5 Aug 09
No, I don't and my reason may be a little bit unusual. My husband had already lost his first wife to cancer when we met so he's already experienced the pain of losing someone he loves. I'm younger than he is and it's my hope that he goes before me so that he doesn't have to bury another wife.
@jimmy87 (475)
• India
5 Aug 09
tat's very touching..thanks for responding
@osris61 (107)
• United States
5 Aug 09
Hi, I must say I do hope I go before my husband. I just don't want to live without him. I know I would still have my children and my grandchild but my husband is my rock!! Maybe I'm being selfish but that is how I want it to be.