Have you ever said something to someone and wish you had said it a bit better?

Hi jugs....I believe you said what you fely in your heart, and from some of your otheer discussion there have been problems for a long time. I have often said things without thinking first to a lot of people and later regretted what had been said and knew I could have explained myself better but sometimes tyou feel like your against a wall and having to fight to get out and that's when thionh=gs are said that could have remained unsaid. You have it out now so maybe he will see that you feel; he doesn't cre for you anymore and either straighten up or leave. I wish you all the luck in the qorld and here is an angel to watch over you and your children. ^j^ ^j^ ^j^ ^j^ ^j^ ^j^ ^j^ ^j^ One for each of you. flutterby

I don't think there is anyone who has not looked back on words and wishes they could do it over or even take it all back, but the fact is that once it's said it's out there and now you have to deal with it. Blessings

Oh yes. Then I try to back track and can't make it any better by trying to rephrase my words.

Ok when I was a teenager I didn't get along with my mom very well because, I was very definite and didn't want anyone to tell me what to do. I called her almost every name in the book.and recently my mom got sick and they had to put in a trach and I haven't heard her voice in almost 4 month and I would do any thing to hear her voice again I know now that I wasted so much time back then telling her shut up mom your dumb mom your so stupid ya I actually said those things to her so ya I do regret saying things back in the day