When will you get your divorce?

I been divorced 3 times. The first one was mutual. Just got married to young! Second one said that he was in love with his new girlfriend. Believe it or not, I actually went to her and asked if we could share him! She said no and I just couldn't handle seeing them together any more. (Just so you know we had 3 children and I wanted to stay together for the kids) The third time I got a divorce when I saw that he was watching my 14 year old daughter getting dressed in the morning while I was going to work!! What a perv!! (number 4 is a keeped and I wouldn't divorce him EVER!!!)

Been there, done that already, but i don't plan on doing it agian, mainly because i don't plan on getting married again. Being married just isn't that important to me. I can spend my life with someone i love without being married to them. I don't know, maybe i was just badly burnt after my first marriage. I went into it thinking that it was going to last forever and that it actuall meant something to BOTH of us, but appearently it didn't as after a couple of years, he decided he would rather be single and be able to party with his friends as opposed to living as a responsible adult.

I've been thinking to get divorce from my husband over and over again. But that's not yet happen. Thinking about my two little daughters, it always make me cry. I just cannot stand to know that my husband have an affair with another woman. And the woman is our workmate. When I know about them, I am very angry and from a softspoken woman, I became a very different person. It surprised me too. When this kind of things happen to us, we cannot expect what we can do. And now, i still give my husband many chances to change himself. And divorce is the last way i will do because its can make me crazy.