long distance relationships
By mikeyo105
@mikeyo105 (125)
Hong Kong
August 6, 2009 11:30am CST
I'm about to start doing long distance with my girlfriend in 2 weeks when i head back to the US for school. How hard is that gonna be? Has anyone found it impossible with long distance?
4 responses
@rajupaul (973)
• India
6 Aug 09
Relationship are start with faith,belief and trust. If one of them is missing, relationship is rarely to stay for a long. There is nothing like long distance relation or impossible to maintain a relation staying far away for sometime.
Keep faith and patience to you partner, you will get result.
@mikeyo105 (125)
• Hong Kong
7 Aug 09
Thanks, yeah. I feel like trust is such a big thing in it but trust needs to be slowly built up. We've been fighting and upset about seperating recently and I think that's taking a negative toll on the entire relationship.. I'll see what happens. I'm only just 20 and I feel like I shouldn't be keeping my hopes up with this girl to settle down.. although we have made such elaborate plans into the future. I really hope things work out though.. and i do trust her.
@rajupaul (973)
• India
8 Aug 09
Dear friend
Don't be broke your heart. Try to realise your partner problem. Make your partner understand. I think problem will be solved.
@pushkin69 (546)
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6 Aug 09
Hi there. My girlfriend and I had a long distance relationship for almost a year and we only got to see one another twice in that time. I lived in Korea and then UK and she lived in Australia. It was hell on earth at times! However it gave us a chance to talk....sounds wierd but without the physical side of things we really opened up to each other. It ended up being a great experience. Our love was strong enough to get us through it and we knew it was worth waiting for. She moved over to the UK last year and we are now in a civil partnership! If its real love it is worth it!
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
6 Aug 09
Hello, my first experience with a long distance relationship was a bad one. I had no problem that he was 5 hours away but he had a chance to experience life on his own without his mother around.Four months later he broke up with me. He wanted to be single and I couldn't do anything to stop him.But that was my experience. Hope your will have a better outcome.
@Archie0 (5652)
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10 Aug 09
long distance relationship would work; but i guess this can be for a relationship like friends and not as partners; it will always be good, when you meet some one after long time; after few days you would go back to your own chores; for sure as a friend this would work; but as partners in life; this would take a toll, in the long run, as you not have the person you need or who loves you, near by, in times which matter most, like a b'day, when you want to share your feelings and lot more;
@dppangaribuan (148)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 09
I am very understand about your heart and feeling for this problem. We wants many times and forever together with our partner, but many factor make it be difference. Its be possible, long distance is a little problem in relationship, many fact in relationship problem is trusty (mutual trust). Many couple cant maintain the trust, make the to the pair (not honest), understand and comprehen pair, quality of good communication and many others. Distance is not be barrier and make it be impossible.
