If you are a stay at home parent do you ever wish you had a job?
By mommaj
@mommaj (23112)
United States
August 6, 2009 2:46pm CST
If you are a stay at home parent do you ever wish you had a job? I've been a stay at home mom for six years. I want a job but then when my husband tells me I will need to get a job next year, it scares the heck out of me! How long have you been a stay at home parent? I dread the thought of entering the work force again.
3 responses
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
6 Aug 09
I have been a work from home parent for the past 17 yrs:) Yes, there are times I wish that I had a regular job, but the thought of it makes me sick to my stomach. I don't think I can even get a job making the kind of money I do working from home, but haveing paid vacations and benefits would be a huget bonus! I run a daycare and some days when my kids and husband are home, it makes my job very hard!
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
6 Aug 09
LOL. I don't think I could run a daycare out of my house with my kids. You must be well organized to do something like that. It must be hard dealing with your own kids when you are trying to run a daycare. The daycare has such a routine and extra can certainly make you crazy. LOL
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
7 Aug 09
I started 17 yrs ago when my kids were little. It was nice because they always had playmates and they learned to share very well.
Now I really like it because I am still here when they leave for school and come home. I can attend all of their sporting events too.
It gets hard during the vacations from school. My kids make it hard to keep the daycare on schedule, so our summer schedule is all messed up!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
7 Aug 09
I'm a stay-at-home mommy. I've been one for nearly three years now (since a month before my youngest son was born). Do I wish I had a job? Well, at times I do but then I come back to reality and realize that I am doing the most important job that any mother could do. I'm raising my children. My daughter is going to be starting first grade next week and my son still has another 2-3 years to go before he starts school. I worked when we only had one child so that we could pay off our cars and other bills so that we could buy a house and then when our son was born it didn't make sense to pay out all of that money in childcare.
Now that our daughter is in school full time, I've considered getting some kind of a job, but my husband doesn't want our son to go to daycare. We had a very bad experience with our daughter when she was in daycare.
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
7 Aug 09
I want a job just for a break. LOL. I have been with my kids 24/7 since they were born, except when I went to the hospital to have my second child. Then my daughter had to stay with her grandparents at night. My husband works 2nd shift right now, so he helps me take them to school and then he sleeps. Our son only goes half days, that's why I'm not working now.
@deadlyorchid1029 (107)
• United States
7 Aug 09
I am a stay at home mom but my oldest son is now 3. I love being a stay at home mom and would not want to give it up for the world. In someways I am lucky because I will never beable to go back to work. I am disables but yes there are many times I wish I could just because money is so tight. I can understand your fears. I have not been able to work for almost 10 years now and I do not know how I would handle them telling me I have to go back to work. It is so differant now a days out there and plus I would miss my 2 boys I would not know how to handle it.
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
7 Aug 09
That's the way I am going to be, I will miss my kids tremendously. They are all I have known for the past six years. How do you go back to work after that? I will only work while they are in school so it might not be too bad. If I can even get hired, I am sure it will be at a fast food restaurant or some type of retail. Who is going to want to hire a bookeeper who hasn't worked in seven years?