My heart is broken......
By themyl
@themyl (1423)
United States
August 6, 2009 8:32pm CST
It has been about four weeks since my wife left to another state with our daughter and her family. Ever since then, I have been unable to sleep, my appetite is about nill, I have lost all interest in just about everything. I now realize that I hurt her (not physically, Never did I hit her or lay a hand on her), but I was ALWAYS there for her, for anything she needed or wanted, I was there.
I loved her with all of my heart and that was one of the reasons I decided to resign from my full time job and start working on my own to be with her MORE. Maybe this was a mistake because maybe she felt smothered by my love. I just wanted to be with her, take her out more often.
What can I do to get her back? She is the Love of My Life!!!!!!!
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@themyl (1423)
• United States
7 Aug 09
I more than likely know what she wants. I think I have been a bit smothering, because I love her I guess TOO MUCH, and always want her to be with me where ever I go. I always want to be with her, this being the reason I am currently self-employed. I only work about two weeks out of the year and this has been enough to pay the bills, buy groceries, gas, and buy her what she wants and needs.
Maybe it's that I Love Her TOO MUCH!!
I can't stand the pain I am feeling in my chest for the longing to have her back with me.
Please don't get me wrong or think I am boring for repeating this but She is the only woman I have ever Truly Loved.
Thanks for your response
@Aprillynn1 (225)
• United States
8 Aug 09
Not to change the subject.... But I would love to know what type of work you do?? I would love to be able to pay my bills on two weeks of work..
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@Aprillynn1 (225)
• United States
7 Aug 09
Oh my sweety, I am sorry to hear this. But you have to make it up to her some way. Whatever you have done, you have to make it right somehow.
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@themyl (1423)
• United States
7 Aug 09
I have called her and told her what you are saying. I have told her that I will live the rest of my days doing whatever it takes to make up for what I have done to make her feel hurt. I have not cheated on her and even though we have been apart from each other for this long (which to me seems like an eternity) the thought of being with another woman has Never entered my mind. I will always love her with all my heart.
Thanks for the response...
@Aprillynn1 (225)
• United States
8 Aug 09
So the whole problem revolves aroung her feeling smothered?? Is that the problem??
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@Aprillynn1 (225)
• United States
8 Aug 09
Okay, so the drift I'm catching is that she feels smothered. So.... You have to give her some space. You can't just tell her you are going to give her space... You have to show her. Find a job where you will be working during the day This seemed to be the begining of the problems. Become unavailable. It can be such a turnoff to have a man that is too available for you... It almost seems pathetic. The next time she calls you, don't answer. Or, if you can't stand it and you must answer, be busy. Find out what she wants and then get off the phone.
This girl knows she has you. And although some woman would feel secure knowing this. Many woman will become very bored with the relationship... or even irritated.
Sometimes I feel very smothered in the relationship I am in and it causes a lot of problems. She needs her own time and her own space.
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