have you ever had a friend who turned into an enemy?
By cainam
@cainam (493)
Philippines
August 6, 2009 10:57pm CST
i had this friend who used to be a good companion and someone who i could say is closest to me. but when i had my first boyfriend she became angry and she even made rumors about my boyfriend and i which are not true. i confront her and asked for her explanations but she just yelled at me in front of many people. it was late when i discovered that she just like my boyfriend and jealous of me. i was pissed off and swear to myself that i will never speak to her again. she act very childlike and it would have been better if she just talked to me privately instead of yelling without a valid reason.
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17 responses
@AznBombr1022 (76)
• United States
7 Aug 09
i have more friends turn enemy then anyone one in the world. thats why i had to keep changing my email address and other things so i dont have to see or talk to them ever again.
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@doggyhouz (548)
• United States
8 Aug 09
Why do you have so many enemies. What did you do to make it seem as if they turn on you. What did they do or you did to make this situation so difficult? I hope in the end it works out well.
@shhheila (1845)
• Philippines
7 Aug 09
me im lucky to have good friends, they never became my enemy... ur friend is really not a true friend at all, she embarrass you in front of many people, true dont do that, ur friend didnt respect u either! dont ever speak to her, u can forgive her, but she will never your friend anymore!!!
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
7 Aug 09
Yes best friends can make the most vicious enermies and the most hurtful because usually they know a lot about you that they can spread around, I have learnt never to share certain things with anyone as secrets only remain secrets while a friendship is on good terms....
@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
7 Aug 09
To answer your question if I've ever had a friend who turned into an enemy? I've had many of them. I've known this group of girls since junior high and we were pretty close back then but as I got into high school one got pregnant and we all just started doing our own things and making other friends. Although we have kept in touch over the years and keep in contact through facebook, I ended up realizing that one of those girls would spread rumors around about me. It's taken me over twenty years to realize that those were not my real friends.. or that one anyway but karma sure played it's role on her haha. She was sleeping around and her husband found out and got divorced and now is living with the reputation of the so called rumors she was spreading around about me. So don't you worry cainam, what goes around comes around and she will get her karma!
Have a nice day :)
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@doglady112 (604)
• Canada
7 Aug 09
Hi there,
I just wanted to say how sorry I am about what happened to you. I wanted to tell you I don't think she's much of a friend for doing that to you. I've had the same thing happen to me but it was family, you know it's harder to trust anyone after your own family has betrayed you
@Masssko (238)
• Estonia
7 Aug 09
For me it has happened, when we have started to share one room in a student's hostel.
When we became so much close, without nearly any personal space left, we just couldn't get along with each other. So I moved out and now we both are doing our best not to see each other again. But indeed I'm grateful to her (and to the situation), that this stimulated me to start independent life.
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@med889 (5941)
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7 Aug 09
I had a friend like this in college who was very nice to me and then one day I discovered that the one who had cut my painting in canva is indeed her and she was simply jealous and hypocrite. I just ignored her but I will always remember that because of her I got penalised in my assignment which was very important to succeed in it.
@doggyhouz (548)
• United States
8 Aug 09
I've never made a friend that turned into an enemy before. I should never get that far and it isn't really worth the time. I understand the emotion and the time you've known each other is hard to ignore but when you realize it isn't worth all that effort because it isn't really going to make it better.
It is either you both work things out or you must accept that you are going two different ways and both end won't meet at each end.
God bless
@babyfiona08 (652)
• Philippines
7 Aug 09
Yeah, I've tried being in that situation before. I have this close friend. We are really close to each other. We share secrets and things like that. One day, someone told him a gossip where in they blame me for saying it. I really didn't tell that. We argued. The friendship is gone. We never talked again. We hate seeing each other. The good times was wasted because of a single gossip.
During the mid year of our class, he talked to me and I waited for so long for him to do that. We reconciled. The friendship is back again. Good thing, we never fought again and until now, he is still a good friend of mine. That incident strengthen our friendship.
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
yea...she's 23 and she dated my 65 year old dad...we almost killed each other!
@ashley1171 (109)
• United States
7 Aug 09
My ex best friend and I were so close. Until one day I replied to something she wrote as a status message on myspace and her other friend was getting an attitude with me saying quit stalking her, and she isn't your friend. My ex-friend didn't even say to her other friend that I was her friend! So i said she was gone :)
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@grundmang (112)
• Israel
7 Aug 09
ive got two and its understandable, you expect people close to you to be trustwhorty and give anything for them but when they dont it hurts 9000 times more
@bmuchler (441)
• United States
8 Aug 09
I met this one friend in 3rd grade and we immediately became close friends. We were inseparable for years. In around 7th/8th grade she started hanging around other people that I really didn't associate with (or maybe I just didn't fit in with them). She quickly became my enemy. Instead of just going our separate ways, she and her new best frined would cll my house and call me names and say bad things about me. I ran into her a few years after high school. She acted like nothing ever happened. I no longer thought of her as an enemy, but didn't really think her of anything. I have not seen or spoken to her in 16 years.
@Stariane (8)
• United States
7 Aug 09
I'm sure I've had more than a couple of these kinds of friends, but I can only recall two at the moment...One was my best friend throughout elementary school, she was very bossy and we were mostly on and off best friends. A lot of that "off" time we spent being worst enemies.
The other was a new girl in class, very shy, but pretty nice I thought, and plus we had a lot in common. I helped her on the first day and I tried talking to her, trying to be friends with her and everything. She really had no interest in talking to me, instead just listening. After a while I thought we got to be pretty good friends. Though once she found some new friends that she seemed to like better, she acted very weird towards me, mumbling and disagreeing with me all the time. Then one day, in class, she kicked me!
...After that we started to compete against each other in everything...until she moved away again, that is.
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
7 Aug 09
yes.
i wished to remain friends with 2 people (being friend to both)and was turned on.the first one's spouse who was already looking for any opportunity to tear me down took that moment to flame it-always was suspicious of people in general.
long story short,all 3 are now not talking to me.
no matter how impartial you wish to remain,it just isn't acceptable to some.
and the funny thing is..i have no idea what the hell my 2 friends were fighting about.
i was supposed to "know" somehow.
@shravandone (555)
• India
7 Aug 09
yupp..it happened to me..in high school.i met a person n this boy became closest by next year..two years we were very good friends..we used to sit next to each other all the day,might it be classroom or playground for lunch.we wouldnt play a game if we were placed in opposite teams..so strong was our bond..but donno what happened in the final year,all of a sudden he started teasing me over gals..that used to irritate me..one fine day i told him off how bad it hurts me...even then he din stop..instead he got along with other classmates n made me a laughing stock before entire class..even i din't say a word of abuse to him..yet our friendship was broken...those days were hell in my life..
that one year of bad experience makes me say highschool sucks..
@chetrarath (53)
• United States
7 Aug 09
yes i became freidns with this girl cause she had a bad rep and i didnt want her to annoy me so i got on her good side. then she ask me out so i didnt deny it then we broke up and now we're enemies