While LOVE must Choose
By advokatku
@advokatku (4033)
Indonesia
August 7, 2009 2:01am CST
I am a 34 year old man. I am married but now I met a territic woman else. She is divorced, five years old and i'm sure she has had a lot of man. I'm really care for this woman with all my heart. We get along very well, even meet. She treats me like I have never been treated before. She makes me feel like a very special person.
Friend mylot .... Its wrong If I fall in love with women else in my married ? I'm stiil love my wife, but I love her. I know its will hurt.
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6 responses
@terapidoe (67)
• Indonesia
7 Aug 09
In my opinion, you have made a big mistake to your wife, if you love another woman. How do feel if you knew that your wife had loved another man? It also has been felt by your wife.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
7 Aug 09
yes, I know this big mistake. But Love my girlfriend is verry interesting
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
15 Aug 09
Hi advokatku, you are really confusing me now. Are all these questions real or are you just posting hypothetical questions, yesterday you were falling in love with a stranger on Mylot, now there's another woman you like in real life, and all the time you are married. Unless these questions are really hypothetical then I hope that your wife logs into your Mylot account.
@dawnald (85147)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Aug 09
The real relationship can never compare with the fantasy one. Better to end the fantasy relationship while the real one still has a chance.
@piya84 (2581)
• India
9 Aug 09
Hiiii Advokatku
Many times things look different from some distance.After leaving your first wife,kids and starting relationship with your girlfriend you might discover things are not that much sweet what once you assume.You need to think wisely and evaluate situation.What is lacking in your current relationship that you find other one attractive?
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
i am a 19 year old girl and you were like a father to me already... i can't imagine my dad having an affair with another woman... i might attempt to kill the woman and i might disown my dad for that. stick with your wife and continue loving her... choose only one or else you might end up with nothing... be a husband to your wife and a father to your children... :)
@marguicha (220225)
• Chile
7 Aug 09
I am a woman so my posture is different. I was faithful to my husband while he was alive although I met many atractive man during those years. For him it was important that I be faithful, so I was. Now, looking at it from the other point of view: how much would you hurt your wikfe with this? Do you care for her enough as to accept that she is first even if you will have to make a sacrifice? Do you have children? Are they less important than your love for this other woman?. If you think your future is with her, leave everything but don´t look back. If not, try to change things in your marriage so that your own wife will make you feel special.
take care
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
7 Aug 09
Thanks marguicha. I think that too. I'm care and love my child. This be my consideration
