My Girl Became Angry - I WANT THAT SHE START TALKING TO ME, WAT SHULD I DO
By Sunil.P
@sunilparthan (6302)
India
August 7, 2009 8:24am CST
It all started 3 years ago wen we were in class 8 when i was saw her for the first time in classroom (can say first sight love) since then i am tring to talk to her and say i love you (3 golden words) but i couldnt, coz i dun think she loves me or not m confused
and the next prob is that her parents came to know about me that i love her and they are agaionst it and i am helpless to do anything in this matter coz no body can help me to make her parents accept me as their son in law and i will settle down with her and with my carrer
now what shall i do to talk to her and her parents and tell them how can i be a successful person????????? 
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10 responses
@sweetsatabdi (80)
• India
7 Aug 09
well i think first you must atleast tell the girl about your feelings..it doesnt matter whether her parents will like you or not at this moment..you have to confess your feelings..if she falls in love with you and if you work hard i think at the end her parents will like you because they love their daughter and they will want her to be happy above everything else..i think you are in your 11th grade now..so prepare hard for your board exam and decide what you want to be in your life,,i guess thats important also..and wish you all the best in life
@abhaijith (2963)
• India
7 Aug 09
Oh,,Friend..
Its all in your hands.It depends on your Personality,any way.
You just try to impress her,and her parents through your good behavior towards them.Wish you all success.
@bluehibiscus (702)
• United States
7 Aug 09
I feel so bad for you. On the bright side at least your future in laws know you, mine refuse to even memorize my name or what country I'm actually from. I think you just have to fight it out, tell them your plans for life, go to school if you haven't already and apparently you need a degree in science not liberal arts (learned that one the hard way) if you want to impress the parents. It will work out, hopefully. best of luck.
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
8 Aug 09
Sunil, there are two questions you must find an answer:
- for she, is her parents will more important than her own will and feelings ?
If yes, case closed. Go drink a bottle of wiskey, get drunk and forget about her.
If no, then:
- Do she want to be with you ?
If no, case closed. Go drink a ... (as above).
If yes, then .. a little patience, keep in touch with her, make plans together and .. be happy together for the rest of your lifes.
@thomoyaec (20)
• United States
7 Aug 09
If the parents won't accept you I suggest you move on because The parents will do everthing in there power to spoil that relationship trust me it don't worth it Try to move on.Hope this help.I have been there thats why I feel its best to move on because you will get lots of hurt trust me on this.
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
8 Aug 09
Communication is key in a relationship. It makes all of the difference in the world. You need to talk to her. Ask her what is going on? What is wrong? Why is she ignoring you? She needs to tell you. Problems cannot be solved with silence.
@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
You don't have to tell her or her parents that you will someday be successful .. . act not ... show them that you will be successful someday by getting a good job now .. . Just be sincere to the girl and you will surely be loved by her.
@thokius (426)
• Austria
7 Aug 09
Hello sunilparthan, It might prove to be difficult. It depends on how kind you can be. The most important thing is that you stay cool and let her win. Anything she says, you go along with. If she says you did something bad don't argue. Just accept it. Make her feel as if she is the winner and as if she is smarter. That's important. Oh and if you want to keep her you are going to have to listen to her very carefully after words. I hope this helped you and sorry if I sounded a bit selfish.
Thok
