How should I do?
By apzheng123
@apzheng123 (63)
China
August 7, 2009 10:05am CST
I am a lesbian,but I often feel very lonely,I am in this country where lesbian is not acceptable,really good to suppress ah,but I'm married,our feelings is not good,but there is a lovely son,if he will have to divorce and I fight for this child,I do not want to lose a child,but I can not accept my husband,it was very contradictory.How should I do?
2 responses
@diamania (7011)
• Netherlands
7 Aug 09
Hi there apzheng,
Quite a difficult situation you are in. I don't really know how to help you. You could tell your husband that you're lesbian, but from what I hear it's better not to do that. People might come after lesbians/gays, that's what I've heard.
Do you have any financial means to take a plane and leave the country for good? If you could take your son with you, you could start a new life in an other country.
Once again, it's difficult to help you, I wish you all the best, and remember being gay is okay.
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
7 Aug 09
Hello,
I hate to hear about divorce. well, I understand what and how you feel but about divorce, Im sorry I can't give out advice cuz it is someone happiness and it is hard to say... sometimes I give out and you are not happy about it.
If you can't accept your husband, then you can tell him the truth and see what he wants to do about it. Im sure he will ask for divorce for sure. or you can talk to someone and get advice about this, someone that know both of u very well
