What your friend expect in you Do you know
By sk_8873
@sk_8873 (83)
India
August 7, 2009 11:44am CST
hi friends
i am physically challanged guy and it is not so easy to help physically to the people like me.Because the person who be with us for long time only know how to put us back while we slipping down both mentally and also in physically.By god`s grace i have such a friend. when i realise this then only i begin to think what would be my friend`s expectations in me so think about it and be good friend to your friend
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5 responses
@tejas1794 (375)
• India
7 Aug 09
Friendship!!! an invisible but the strongest bonding between us. In my views.. friendship is not expectations but its just trust,faith, sharing and feeling of joy/sad when togather... Physical fitness, money and muscle powers are not parameters of friendship. so Friend is GOD's blessing and friendship is acceptance of our friend with all his/her GOOD and BAD... Now our responsibility is just try to increase Good factor in him/her to polish our bonding.... Take Care of FRIENDS ... Wishing Good friends for you...
@varunsdo (204)
• India
7 Aug 09
Let me tell you one thing, my best friend is also physically challenged. I never expected anything from him though I show that I have a lot of expectations from him. I never felt that he is not a normal person like me. I always treated him as a normal person. He is more courageous than me. When we both are together, we know that no one could even gaze at us. True friendship is never affected by such things.
@Hatley (163773)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Aug 09
sk 8873 Your friend should expect from you what he would from any friend, and he should not let your being physically challenged
even enter his mind in those expectations,hopefully he just
wants you to value his friendship as I hope he values your
friendship. He wont expect anything from you physically that you
'are unable to do and he should treat you the same as a person who is not physically challenged.After all its our minds that conduct our friendships not our bodies.
@sblossom (2168)
•
15 Sep 09
I don’t know how to answer it. Before today I never thought about it. If my friends do expect something in me I think they would like me to contact them regularly. Because my life changed a lot recently I did not contact them for long time. I think they thought I forgot them, but in fact I miss them very much. However I don’t want to talk with them for now. I don’t know what I can say to them. I still find my feet in the UK. I wish I can contact them when I come back to Beijing one day.
@sfjalex (46)
• India
29 Aug 09
Putting myself in your position and in the shoes of a person who would help people like you i guess the important thing needed is truthfulness and a little care. In the little experience that i have with friends i have been told that truthfulness in small things would be appriciated.