Do you really think that your lover, hus/wife is perfect?or love is blind?
By marianna45
@marianna45 (1399)
Romania
August 8, 2009 12:45am CST
Can somebody been perfect even we love them?
Exist perfect person? i don t think'..but when we tend to believe this when we are in love; i am right or not? is love blind, or we need perfection to accept life challenge more easier?
Your lover, wife, or husband are perfect?
He or she think about you that you are perfect too?
7 responses
@glords (2614)
• United States
8 Aug 09
I know that my hubby is not perfect... for example he refuses to take out the garbage... and a few other things that I won't go into... but he is perfect for me. I'll forgive him for his little flaws... and he will forgive me. We focus on each others qualities rather then dwelling on each others faults. When you spend more time thinking about a persons faults the relationship starts to fall apart. When you think about something that bothers you, you becomes irritated, resentful, impatient, etc. When you think of someones qualities you feel gratitude, love, respect, patience, etc. Its just a better way to approach marriage. After all you married the person because you loved them... not because they were going to take the garbage out... Am I right?
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@marianna45 (1399)
• Romania
8 Aug 09
Hi there..you are right, is not perfect what people like is perfect what you like.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
17 Aug 09
When you tend to love someone you won't be able to see his/her imperfections because you are blinded by your emotions, you're denying the fact that he/she is not the one you've been dreaming of. Once a couple is separated, you'll notice that you've fell in love with the wrong person.lol Physical appearance first thing you'll notice! and you'll regret those moment you said "yes" to that person.lol
@aprces (1082)
• China
8 Aug 09
Emotionally,Love is certainly blind.But how do you know that your emotion is totally under your control?Who knows?For me,when I talk about others' Love thing,I can be rational,but when the same thing was happened to me,then I can't keep it anymore.But one thing I can fully dare swear it is true that my wife is the most beautiful woman in the world,on the earth and around the metagalaxy
@cls1970 (24)
• United States
9 Aug 09
Nobody is perfect. Part of loving someone is recognizing their faults and loving them despite those faults and knowing that they love you despite your own faults. Love should never be blind, because at some point you'll become disillusioned with that other person.
@Jwood2112 (16)
• United States
8 Aug 09
I know neither of us are perfict. infact.. both of us are far from it. He does these little things that just make me so mad. and I do the same to him. I think thats the thing thoug... i dont think anyone is supposed to be perfect... WHat is perfect any way?? I do know that he is perfict for me.. he is a chalange and i love that. at times love is blind but people can change
@Ashwinirakesh (20)
• India
9 Aug 09
You can never say Hus/wife are not perfect. Offcourse love is blind. but that does not mean Hus/wife are not perfect. When are truly in love and understand each oher they will be always perfect.
