Help me friends!
By varunsdo
@varunsdo (204)
India
August 8, 2009 1:56am CST
A girl proposed me for a relationship. She gave me her email. I Searched her username in google. I found that she is banned from a datting site. What should I do next.
4 responses
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
8 Aug 09
I think that depends on what she was banned for. All you can do is ask her about it and see what kind of response you get.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
8 Aug 09
Simple then - you can create e-mail addresses all the time - yahoo, hotmail, gmail just create another account and contact her through that e-mail, not your personal one.
I do that with contacts all the time. Keeps online world separate from my own personal world.
@varunsdo (204)
• India
8 Aug 09
@moneyblogger
Hmmm! you said it right, I must be safe then sorry. I must forget about it like a dream.
@boop4now (4)
• United States
9 Aug 09
Do not answer her. Block her from your profile and never give out your e-mail or Instant Messaging address. There are many Scammer's on the Internet and they will ask you to cash checks for them and then when you cash them, you will find out that they are bogus checks (not good). Then the responsibility of paying back the money falls on you. Check out the 419 Nigerian Scammer's List on the Internet. Also go to Oprah.com and she had a show on it a while back. This is just not going on in Nigeria but all over the world. You can also catch virus's by allowing them to Instant Message you and giving them your e-mail address. Be very careful about giving out important information. If she is out of the country, from where you live, your country may not have any jurisdiction or be able to recover anything that you have lost or given to this person. She may also want to marry you, just to get away from where she lives and become a citizen of your country. Also, the picture she has on her profile may not even be her, so just be very careful and think about what you are doing. A word from the wise.
@boop4now (4)
• United States
9 Aug 09
You can also set up a new e-mail account at mail.com, just to use for dating sites and it includes a portion in the e-mail where you can access the Header and find out the destination of the e-mail. If you do not know how to interpret the Header, just call your Internet Service Provider and they can tell you where it originated from and who the ISP address belongs too. Good luck.
@sk_8873 (83)
• India
8 Aug 09
hi friend
she never proposed at your first contact.so recollect the situation where she gave her email and then come to an conclusion.Second ask to your mind whether she is necessary or need and then began to collect details of her .Otherwise dont waste your precious time this my simple thought
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
8 Aug 09
Hehe ... Go to Yahoo.com and register a new email account (is free). Write her from there and see what is happen .. If you ask me, I won't ask her about that ban right away, let first few emaile-exchange, see what she have in mind ..
Then, if for whatever reason you do not want to continue, delete that email account or simply stop loging in, the system will delete that automatically after some time.
Sure, do not complete the registration form with your real data ...
