No money...No friends

I agree with it..although some may not agree with us, but for me, it really works now..I have my friend who is rich, whenever we are having our eyeballs, she always treats us in bars, we drink till morning, and all expenses are paid by her..and most of our friends becomes dependent on her..Everytime we we see each other, some of my friends will request her to treat us and she will really treat us..I really wonder if she is not that rich I don't think she maybe able to have many friends, although she is really kind..Some are taking advantage of that, some had credits to her, and imagine, she really don't mind if those people won't pay her, because she treats them as friends, it really sad..

yeah its totally true about what you are saying. friends only stay around if you have money they wont if you dont. totally sucks if they arent really your friends at all if its just for money.

I don't think that friendships are built around money. A lot of my friends and I are completely broke and we are still friends. None of us are dependent on one another or anything like that.

i think that may be true for some people but not for me, i have my set of friends that i have known for over 12 years, and when i was out of work my friends actually refused to let me stay at home if they went out and they would pay for me, we do that for any of our friends that can't afford to go to the cinema we just pay for them because we all help each other out

Yes, this is very true in my life. I never spend money on friends so i don't have many friends, but my brother spends money on his friends he has lot many friends, who always call him for movie, picnic, chatting biking etc. But i don't have much friends. But i am happy that his quarrels are happens everyday. But don't even indulge in any fightings. So if you want to stay peaceful always be without friends.

I never buy my friends which means all the friends I have are mine. There is a simple rule which I folow: Neither spend on your friends nor let them to spend on you. With this formula my friends are always with me and it doesn't depend on my pocket.

such those are not real friends, they are only fairweather friends who will latch on to whoever is well to do. real friends could care less whether you are rich or poor.so most friendships are built on love, liking, having similar interests but not on money. only shallow false friends are money grubbers

Those type of people are what I refer to as fake-a-friends. They pretend to be your friend as long as you are doing well, but as soon as they are no longer abel to mooch off of you, they move on to someone else. A true friend will be there no matter what, whether you are rich or poor, happy or sad, whatever the case may be, a true friend will be there.

No money........no friends........ Yes I have to agree with you on this. I've seen the times when I've had money and friends weren't so hard to find but when the money run low they will disapear and I have to wonder if they were ever true friends in the first place. Happy mylot!

I think there will be some people in your life who will be your friend based on the money you have, but in my opinion they aren't true friends. Your true friends are the ones who stand beside you when the money is flowing in and who hold you up when the money has stopped coming in and you are down to your last dollar. I have many friends and I do know some of them are the type of friend if tomorrow I lost my job and had no money they would move. It is for that reason I don't get real close to them or allow them to far into my life. On the other hand I have friends in my life that I know would still be there tomorrow if all my money is gone and that is why I consider them close friends and let them into intimate areas of my life

Some people only want rich friends or friends with benefits while others just want friends that they enjoy being around regardless whether they are poor or rich. It depends on the person, everyone is different and have different preferences when it comes to friends. For me, I just want friends that I enjoy hanging out with.

I can honestly say that I don't agree with you. But I'm happy to agree to disagree. Between myself and all of my friends, we don't talk money except for to complain about financial burdens which we bear. I've never asked a friend to foot a bill for me and they've never done that to me. None of us are rich people, but we are from very differing backgrounds. Does it matter that I live in a fixer upper house while many of my friends have had their own houses built that cost 3x what we paid for ours, no. In my opinion a friendship based solely on money isn't a friendship that is worth having.

This is true but not always. I have also some friends who not over money but on my behavior. I don't refuse to you, because I have seen breaking of relationship to some of my friend on entry of money between. hope friendship will remain in the world with its purity .

Hello suchi60, sadly but you are right. Most friendships are based on money. I've seen people get apart by money. But there are still a few who don't use this as a viewpoint. Cheers! Thok

Yes. It right now it might still be the color of peoples skin. I think that's why other colors don't like the colors of peoples skins. Because they think just because where that color than we don't have enough money or we don't speak right so that's why they don't want to be are friends.

i don't agree this opion,i select the friend and don't value as money,i need that the real relationship,the real friends who can give me help and advice and comfort at me,especially when i met some difficulty and could not deal with it,i hope that my friends can depend me and give me bravy and intellegence to overcome it.if the relationship build up as money basic,i thought that your friends who would be willing to help you when you met difficulty ,i don't think that the money could sovle everything,so i hope that relationships is based on care and love and help,not money.

well, I think the friend you talking about is not in real friendship, believe me real friendship has nothing to do with your money, I solely believe it. and in Chinese there's an old saying that "you will only see real love/friend when you are in difficulty."

I agree to that unfortunately, and not just people with money but also smart people who thinks they have real friends just because they asked him/her for help. and when you're not smart,rich, or useless, people will ignore you and consider you as nothing..it's a cold hard truth...

to be honest, i have no clue because i'm still a student living off of my parents' money (:P:P) so i just have friends my school and they're living off of their parents' money so we're all pretty well of in terms of money. Also because i go to a private school, i hardly see any poor people therefore i can't really be sure if friendship is built upon but thinking about paris hilton and all those stupid celebrities, you might be right :P

i kinda disagree with that... friendship would exist even without money..in fact, it is in the absence of money that you see who your true friends are... if a lot of people are always around you just because you have tons of cash, then they are not worthy to be even called friends.. happy myLotting suchi!