love marriage v/s arranged marriage

@aasani (82)
India
August 9, 2009 1:12am CST
Hey folks...What do you think about love marriage v/s arranged marriage? which one is better : marrying one who you love and probably end in one of divorce oR marrying someone decided by your parents or elders whom you dont even know..
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4 responses
advokatku
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 09
like as a love which any and grow when you felt it, so love marriage better arranged marriage. About divorce, thats depend how keep feel a love that you feel
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indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 09
very difficult to answer. but with a better marriage selection alone. we can know the habit pair, even though many are finally divorced. but most often occur in the divorce that set of parents.
Archie0
@Archie0 (5652)
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10 Aug 09
I believe in love marriage. I see you, get attracted to you, a long courtship, mutual feelings and we good for marriage not the other way round. Arrange marriage, only in few cases, works out, but mostly it doesnt work out. Divorce, regret and hatred are the outcome.
aasani
@aasani (82)
• India
11 Aug 09
hey archie0, i agree to your statement, but, i also feel that love marriages seem to be good for sometime till the people become bored of their duties, as they realise the problems or adjustment in marriages, the band starts breaking..
EliteUser
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
25 Sep 09
Hey, Well I don't really know how to answer the question, but in my opinion I wouldn't want an arranged marriage, I would rather pick the person myself. But for others, it may work out with an arranged marriage. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
ranjanjec
@ranjanjec (43)
• India
28 Aug 09
In my opinion, arranged marriage is better than love marriage. I think, the love which starts before marriage does't lask long.