how many pending friend requests you have in mylot?
By shibham
@shibham (16977)
India
August 9, 2009 4:55am CST
Hello everyone,
I just want to ask a simple question as mentioned above. How many pending friend requests you have in mylot? Have you ever deleted someone of them? Do you think that a 5 months old request can ever be accepted?
Well, I have 18 pending friend requests after deleting five. Now u have again five requests which are 5 months old and I am thinking about to delete.
What about you?
Please share.
SHIBHAM
09-08-09
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30 responses
@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Aug 09
yes, i will take a time of one month. some members are realy not active but i have seen in my pending friend's profile that some of them are still running. but as i feel that some of them are more interested in eanings than making friends or living in a world wide social network.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Aug 09
high reputation of posts is not a matter at all bcoz "yes", "no", " i know", " i don't know" may be the answers of discussions and it will increase your number of posts, but is it a real reputation. COUNTERFEIT. yes some are too blind for it.
thanks for shares.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
20 Aug 09
Right now I request friendships from people I exchange thoughts with daily, if I respond to someone's discussion just because, I will now ask to be friends with that person, I really don't want a lot of friends how will I keep up with them and their discussions, I really want to support my friends here, too many will be too much imo, but if I had a pending request for longer than 2 weeks I will delete it, I requested the friendship of the person that drew me to mylot to begin with, but I don't think she is active right now, I took back the request.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
9 Aug 09
Hi shibham. I currently have 3 pending requests. The oldest is from 4 months ago.
At one point I had 7 pages of pending requests! Someone advised me that I should delete those that have been pending for some time, though I didn't see the point in deleting the requests at first so it took me a while, but I finally got around to it. I probably should delete these remaining 3. If they haven't accepted/denied my friendship by now, I don't think they ever will.
Happy mylotting!
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 09
No I don't have any pending request except for one who has just requested 5 minutes ago. I am not one that allows anyone waiting for my approval. It is either I approve or reject when I get a request but most of the time I approve if they are genuine cases. I can't stand seeing a request hanging in that request column for days without my action. If I am skeptical of a person request I will let it hang on there the most is 3 days. Within 3 days I don't see them doing anything in mylot then I have to delete the request. 5 months is too long a wait. You have to make up your decision as the person might be anxiously waiting for your reply. When I am the one who request I will be disappointed if that person dilly dally in approving my request.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 09
I seldom request now. Each time when I post new discussions I get people requesting for my friendship. So I just approve them when I see they have responded to my discussion. Many of those on my list are sleeping partners. Some never even response to my discussion. I will once in a while go through my list and delete those that I have never seen participating in mylot. I really didn't realize that my friends list had soared up to that number.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Aug 09
hi zandi, it is quiet interesting that you are requesting now still having 703 friends. how you select a friend for you? can you handle all of them. don't mind, i know its your private issue.
well, now i am thinking that i shall delete them who are more than one month old. having a list of pending request is realy clumsy. if anyone has no interest to dandle me then why i shall be too loyal to them. isn't it?
thanks for response.
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@brienn (825)
• Philippines
9 Aug 09
Good day shibham,
Well for I have no pending friend request, cause I make sure if there is any I always accept it. And I haven't delete any friend request yet. Cause I think it is very happy to have a lot friends here in MyLot .
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
10 Aug 09
Hi shibham, I always accept the friend requests whenever there is any. I like to have more friends, so that I could have more choice to pick the topics which I’m interested I did delete some users from my friend list before. There are those who had zero post as well don’t have any discussion started in their profile. Moreover they were inactive for months long.
I still keep those old friends in my list though they are inactive for more than half a year or longer. I hope they will turn up here again later
Happy posting
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@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Aug 09
hi ikbooi, yes there are some mylotters who use mylot to waste their time. they have no activity just keep a target to make a huge friend list. but my question was how many pending requests u have till now means are there any request from u which is not accepted?
thanks for response.
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
10 Aug 09
I don't have any pending friends request because I accept them as soon I see the request. I don't reject any requests to be friends with me. I choose my friends in mylot because I like the discussions that they make and I think that could also be the same reason why someone would want to be my friend, because we have similar interests.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Aug 09
oh my I have fifty i just got back on line a few days back
and I am sooo behing in everything. I hardly ever delete
anyone unless I find out something I really dislike about
some one. I must go through the list and probably I will
delete very few. happy mylotting and welcome hatley here
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@shibham (16977)
• India
10 Aug 09
hi hately, 50, i think it ts enough to bear. i don't think that they will ever accept your request if they are more than one month old. i have deleted my requests after leaving two. how u will com to know about his/her attitudes to dislike unless he/she is not your friend?
anyway, thanks for response.
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
10 Aug 09
Honestly speaking,I don't have a pending friend request over here... I don't prefer keeping this requests pending. And most of the time I accepts all requests..Because after all it helps my earning. As I could came to know about many discussions where my friends participated or started...And right now,I have many friends over here in mylot.
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@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
10 Aug 09
Hi there, i dont know how many pending friend request i have. The last time I checked it i have numbers of friend request and it was for a long time already. Well later i will check it and see how old is my request then have to delete it already maybe thy dont want me to be their friends heheh. Anyway, nice discussion I almost forgot about this, need to check it after submitting my comments. Keep on mylotting,
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@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
22 Aug 09
Right now I have 60 pending friend requests.hehe. I am a bit wary in approving their request because I am not sure anymore what's the purpose of having so many friends here when some of my posted discussions are answered only by 10 people and mostly not my friends. So I stop approving friend's request. No offense to other members.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
22 Aug 09
Hi there, 60 isnt enough, what do u think? Yes there are some mylotters who dont know the actual meaning of friendship. Let them go. I am giving u a chance to examine me. I am just sending u my friendship request. After accept it u will find my reaction. Hope u will do. Lol
@shimanaja (493)
• Indonesia
10 Aug 09
So far i never pending friend requests, just approve immediately when i saw there are some friend requests.
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@shimanaja (493)
• Indonesia
11 Aug 09
ow, forgive me shibham,
never pending the friend request too long, it takes one day after i make friend request..and it just one or two friends
@behappyalways (93)
• India
30 Oct 09
No.. I dont have any pending requests in my lot
Whenever i get the request i immediatley accept them.
I dont think you can accept request after a long time of 5 months.
Try once
Thanks
BHA
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
10 Aug 09
I requested quite a few friends, but I have not checked to see how many are left to say yes. It seems I get a lot of people from the Philippines and India requesting to be my friends, but when I request friends, I go to interests rather then country. And when I want more friends of a certain interest, I will wait even more then five months until they say yes. I do not know why. I mean we are supposed to agree to disagree, so do they just want yes women?
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@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
10 Aug 09
hello there! whenever i got pending request here in mylot i always make sure to accept everyones request cause i think there is no reason why not accept it .,i love being friends and for me the more friends you got the more topic you will have to enjoy and read and replied to it ., thanks a lot and have a nice day ahead!
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Aug 09
I don't have any pending friend requests. Whenever I login my account, I will accept to the friend's request immediately. This is why I won't have pending request. I have never deleted any friends. I like to have more friends here.
I love China
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
10 Aug 09
Hello,
I just approve your request cuz I just came back online. well, I have non request cuz most of the time when I do the request seem like they never bother to accept... so I just wait for someone else to do request and I do the approve
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@Preciousgem (1182)
• Philippines
10 Aug 09
I have four pending friend request here in mylot for the past 4 months, and i didn't deleted, i just keep it tack on that corner of mylot.
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@kennishababy (193)
• United States
9 Aug 09
I usually only have a few friend requests at a time.
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