why other get a lot of responds?

The majority of the users who receive many responses to their discussions, even after a long time has passed, are those who get back and comment on them. When a user responds, most of them hope that they will get some sort of acknowledgement from the user who started the dicussion and when they know the user and know that they will receive a comment and that they can get back and respond again because another comment will then appear, they keep responding. There is nothing worse than responding and... silence! It's like when you start a conversation offline and no-one talks to you when you respond. You feel a bit off surely? You then move on and talk to someone who is going to take at least a bit of notice in what you have to say and you will return again to talk with those people. It's the same here. Most of the dicussions with lots of responses are also filled with comments too.

Good day rubypalmes, I think one of the factor why other members get a lot of responds to their discussion is that, they have some interesting topics and they have started it in a good interest. Friends here in MyLot may respond and may not, just what happening to me, some of my friends responded to my discussion but not on all of my discussion. I suggest that think of a topic that will tickle the interest of a lot MyLotters. God bless. Happy MyLotting .

A lot of it has to do with the subject material. A lot of people tend to dive in on the more contoversial topics, and, a lot do like personal advice questions, too. It does help to have a lot of friends, too, because your posts show up on their homepages, and draw attention to them.