How to make your life happy?

Indonesia
August 9, 2009 10:22pm CST
Do you have a happy life? Why? What would you do to make your life happy?
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@lisell12 (21)
10 Aug 09
I think what is a happy life for one person might not be a happy life for another. I know life it self is not always happy, but if you have a good sense of being, well I think and try to make the best out of everything I do, maybe that is because I am a CareGiver.(I take care of the elderly).It might not be an easy job, but it sure is an interesting one.It has it`s ups and downs like everything does, except it sure makes me happy, to be able to make life easier, for those who need and deserve it.THEIR OUR PAST, AND THE MEMORIES OF THE GOOD TIMES THEY HAVE LIVED, Would put a smile on the (GRINCH`S Face)if you don`t believe me, go talk to someone elderly YOU know,I bet You come out with the largest smile you haven`t had in a long time.Not everyday is a happy day,but if everyone would try just a little bit harder,it could be.Give it a try,you got nothing to loose, but your feelings of anger,sadness,being grumpy,being alone,being unliked,nahhh... thats not being happy...GIVE SOMEONE ANYONE (A SMILE,) AND IT WILL COME RIGHT BACK TO YOU... and your day will be a happier one. :-)I just gave you my smile, and I am already happier.
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@taogang (103)
• China
10 Aug 09
You are right,support you !You must be an optimistic person...And your job is so great...God blessing you
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
10 Aug 09
I always have a happy life. Why ? because I feel it. To make my life happy I always grateful what has I do every day. And, I always try to pray to God, hopefully GOD always blessing me
• India
14 Aug 09
I'm sorry to hear that you have been going through such a tough time! Yes life can be very difficult when you are faced with so many obstacles and the struggle for happiness can be daunting at times...you are soooo right it is always best to take one day at a time, one moment at a time.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
25 Sep 09
Hey, Well I can't say that my life is really good, but it isn't that bad either. I mean I could do with some more money, and better clothes and better TRUE friends. But I am still happy with my life so far. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
• United States
10 Aug 09
I relocated from IL to KY 1.5 yrs ago and I wasn't happy there (around 30 yrs) and I haven't been happy here. I really needed more of a change then this. KY looks just like IL or pretty close. For some reason I just don't feel very happy here. I think life is what you make it; I just can't seem to make myself a happy life. There's allot missing in my life like friends, having a car (to get around), having enough income, a church home - stuff like this that would really make a difference. I'm sick allot with migraine headaces and tmj pain. I just can't seem to get around to making my life happier. And all I can think about is relocating again but not having enough money can make that very difficult. I think a person will be happy or allot happier if they have a good balance in their life in areas such as religion, social, hobbies, activities, needs met - stuff like this.
• India
14 Aug 09
ahh...the pursuit of happiness....it's part of the American Declaration of Independance. Yes I believe I do have a happy life, it may not be happy due to external circumstances but internally I feel very happy. I feel happy because when I sit alone, I feel that my conscious is clear and light, that I have stood true by my principles.I feel that I have dealt people in the best possible way without hurting them. If I have hurt someone, I always go back and try and make up for my lacking. I may lack materially, but I think real happiness is when you close your eyes and connect with your essence, you must feel good about yourself. I beleive happiness is an 'inner' state of being....which requires much work. Once this state has been acheived then you can always maintain a good equilibrium in the most challenging circumstances. A good sense of humour never goes a miss and good company always help too.
• Indonesia
18 Aug 09
First of all, I thank you for all who have commented this discussion. I gain much value of life which is very valuable. To be happy is a kind of journey to the life itself. Thanks for sharing your experiences and value of happiness. May God bless you all.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
10 Aug 09
Worrying is the major smasher of happiness. Learning to go with flow and stay detached from the things that take control of you is the secret of happiness. I stay happy as much as possible because this is all I have and all I can give to myself.
• Indonesia
18 Aug 09
Oke. stop worrying and start to control ourselves to be have a positive feeling.
@taogang (103)
• China
10 Aug 09
Contentment !!the present I give for you which makes your life more happy