What would you do if your mom says she won't go to your wedding?

Be more loving and more caring for your mother. Your love should be very strong enough to change her mindset. Prepare yourself to take every thing with a pinch of salt. Happy days ahead. May God bless you.

I would be so devastated that my mom would act this way- but you need to convince her that this is a very special time in your life and she needs to come experience this with you, whether or not she likes your boyfriend or not.

Well, my mother did not come to my wedding. Not because she didn't agree with who I was marrying (although my father tried to talk me out of it even while he was walking me down the aisle). My mom lived 2,000 miles away and because we already knew she was going to have a grandbaby later that year, she opted to make the trip when the baby was born instead of coming to the wedding. Unfortunately (kinda) she got a much better job a month or so before my son was born and did not have any leave time to take and come out when he was born. In your instance, though, I would be upset, but not let it ruin your happy event. If your mother is still not happy with your boyfriend, you might want to talk to her about what a future with him will mean to you. Most people are just all talk and when it comes down to it, they're very proud of their children and will be at all the important events. The ones that don't will usually regret it so try to "let it go" if she does lose out on something special like this. Good Luck!

dreamr my mom let my dad bully her into staying in South Dakota when I married my husband in Phoenix arizona many years ago. but oh boy once I had that first grandchild everyone was so tickled they forgot why they didnt like my fiance. so maybe you will have to just go ahead and marry the man you lo ve, and perhaps once mom realizes you really love him and are happy she will change her mind,I hope so. I would be hurt as I was myself but if you love him and am happy thats what really counts, I am sure Mom will come to her senses, just give her a bit of time. my mom g rew to really like my husband.

If he's been your boyfriend for 4 years its time for her to except it. If she would rather miss her daughters wedding then see you marry him then she is wrong. I hope you can forgive her but if you can't thats her loss.

Hi dreamer! You must have time to talk one on one with your mother and convince her that you had a good choice of marrying your boyfriend. If still she remains on her stand of not going to your wedding, let it be. But always show her your love and that you respect her decision. By doing so, she might change her mind later on and accept your bf as your husband. Always bear in mind that mothers only wants what's best for their children and so you have to prove yourself right for her to have peace of mind. Good day!

my mom wouldn't be able to do anything about it. she has to go. hehehe no matter what she thinks and feels, we know she would still go because she's a mom through and through. she won't be able to keep away. hehehe no matter what the differences are of opinions, weddings in the family is a big thing in our clan... being close-knit. six of my siblings have already been married. and i'd say that my mom does not agree to all of my siblings' spouses, but she was still there anyway. hehehe so it wouldn't be different in my case. she'd still be there no matter if she said she wouldn't be. hahaha i know my mom. so i don't worry about it.

Talk to your mom and convince her to come. Explain to her that nobody's perfect, she may deslike your boyfriend in some aspects but sooner or later she will see all the goodness in him. Don't get mad at her instead show her your love and and desire to have her presence at the wedding. No mother would deprive her daughter of her happiness, so go pray first before convincing your mom to attend and you'll see. She will.

i can't image that what will i feel if my mom say to me.parent dont accept your boyfriend.do you really know why? your mom's opinion is mature than yours i think.why not consider more and try to solve the problems then go for a happy wedding?good luck.

of course i will be mad at her, but i will explain to her everything so that she can understand my situation..!! maybe she will understand me.. it's just love all i can say..!!

I think at first i would start crying. why wouldn't a mother want to see her daughter be married? but in the end it's her loss. she's the one that's missing out.