Are white guys capable of loving chinese girls?
By hollyhock33
@hollyhock33 (29)
August 10, 2009 2:08am CST
And I mean really loving them and not just treating them as mere one night stands. I have a chinese friend who's really infatuated with an american guy she met few weeks ago during an exchange program. Thing is, she hesitated in starting the relationship as she had been cheated a few times by several white partners she used to have. I am of chinese-american parentage so obviously i'd asked her to look at my happy parents to encourage her to just give it a try. But she's just too fearful of getting hurted again and told me that 'white guys today are real jerks'. No offense. I'm not that into white guys and despite being half-american, I've been living in an asian country like forever, so I think I need some help to gauge the real situation now to help my friend gain some perspective. Any advice or real life examples? thanks
3 responses
@ivy_sunny (28)
• China
16 Aug 09
i think it does not matter about the nation and culture , i am a chinese girl and one of my friend fell in love with the US boy and they get married and lead a very happy life. love is everywhere i agree with the sayings. nowadays, people love to try some different thing, it is just a good way to exchange love
@sblossom (2168)
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10 Aug 09
There are so many Asian women (including Chinese women) get married to White men in the world and some of them have very happy marriage.
So I don’t think the worry should be existing. I think your friend should think seriously why she was cheated several times? What’s wrong with her choice?
Every culture has advantage and disadvantage. We can’t say people in a particular descent are bad or not. We just can use our eyes to see and our brain to analysis.
Wish your friend can go out from the unhappy past and be brave for new life.
@dorahuang (59)
• United States
10 Aug 09
i think true love can be found between two people with different colors, different nations, even different races. you know love is everywhere. so encourage your friend to start actions