Are you jealous of your classmates' sucess?
By lcainiao
@lcainiao (201)
China
August 10, 2009 8:19pm CST
During the classmate gatherings, it is generally the successful classmate who invite, organize and entertain all the classmate. It is uncomfortable to see the former classmate who has established their career with a happy family, esp. those who were inferior to you before, but who have won their fame and fortunate, with attendants around, living in a villa, driving a sport car. It is more unease to praise them. The only thing you could do is to keep to yourself and sign the back luck. Have you got this kind of experience? Please talk about your feeling with us.
1 response
@ChrysanTflower (1607)
• Indonesia
11 Aug 09
My classmate haven't gathering yet, but I know one of my friend who already find a good job right after our graduate. It's because his parents have good company and relation with businessmen in my country. Now is holiday time and he already get a job with salary $100 each week. It's good for fresh graduate high school I think,,
At first I don't know about this, then he phoned me and told me all the details.. i feel jealous and a bit angry. Who wanna know about that? and I think he is arrogant.. because suddenly he phoned just to say "Hey I get $100 each week job! Do you know? I'm really happy. DO you know? What do you think,,etc,etc" I only smiled and say "it's good,,do the best"..but actually I'm jealous. And I feel bad because this jealousy. Do you think I'm bad person?
You're right, it's hard to praise them. But I make it as a fuel to make me do better and get more money than him!
