what do you expect in marriage?

Hi Cindy! I think that adjustment, mutual understanding and sacrifice are the essential ingrediants in a successful marriage. If one can make 'adjustments' with the other partner and get along with him/her with all his/her negative/positive traits and I think a marriage could succeed. However, if 'ego' problem comes in between a married couple and no body is willing to compromise or surrender, then it becomes difficult to pull along.

I expect my spouse will be kindness and like to share good something to family.I believe i have a good family, but sometime we may not adapt together in some situations.

yes marriages depend and last on understanding and forgiveness, love and giving....yes its more about giving than expecting....it will last long if u r determined and dedicated.... there are many people realted to a marriage, many lives and many relations ...so its more than only love between the two...and should be protected from being losing its values...

Hello, I think you got it right. For me, I can't seek for another love cuz I think If I can't deal with this person then I can't deal with someone else either, plus I have children with him and I love my kids and I dont want to destroy their feeling at all. I always forget and forgive my husband all the time, he does the same. But sometimes I feel he is not enough for me... seem like he is ignoring me more often... but I think it is just what I was thinking something stupid. I always want some love from all my children and my husband. I want to stay in the marriage and work this thing out always. I will die with him and I will fight to make my marriage work