Do you feel sad when your lover crying?
By chelseaalawn
@chelseaalawn (717)
Hong Kong
August 11, 2009 9:34am CST
When you see your lover is crying, do you have any hard feelings? Do you feel like you really want to help him/her out on the issues? I was telling my lover somethinglast night and I was too upset and cried... hHe didntact anything... so does that mean he doesnt love me? I always think he think what I say is crap so no matterwhat I say to him is useless......
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6 responses
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
11 Aug 09
I would feel very sad when I see my lover cries because it is just like I am hurting as well when he is crying, I never seen my honey cried though, he is a tough guy.
@chelseaalawn (717)
• Hong Kong
11 Aug 09
That's good. If you ccant see he's crying. Then you dont have to qualm.
@sunilparthan (6302)
• India
11 Aug 09
yes dear i feel sad when my lover crying but she dont feel like that that also make me feel sad ha ha what to do hmmm have a nice day dear
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
13 Aug 09
Some people, and mostly men, do not know how to deal with someone else when they are hurting. They don't know what to say to make it better so saying nothing seems, at the time, a better option.
It really depends upon how sentimental a person is. A person that is sentimental will feel the pain you have while you are crying and even if they don't love you will feel sorry for the pain you feel. Others may love you very much but have convinced themselves that being strong is the only answer to helping you get over it.
If your feeling is that he does not respect what you say then you are probably right. Not many people would be able to fake that or want to.
@bluehibiscus (702)
• United States
12 Aug 09
We're very close. Whenever I see that he is hurting I hurt. I hate to see him even a little upset, I always say he has to pretty of eyes to be sad.
@mikeyo105 (125)
• Hong Kong
12 Aug 09
I am very upset when I see my lover cry.. because I feel that when she is happy i am happy.. and when she is upset.. i am upset.. and i hate seeing her upset so i try all i can in all my power to cheer her up and make her forget about whats making her upset.. i don't think you could say that he doesn't love you just because he didn't really react to you crying.. maybe he was preoccupied by something else.. something serious on his mind.. or maybe he didn't know how to cheer you up or what to say.. i would not draw the conclusion that he doesnt love you maybe you should look for other signs to see if he loves you.. does he appreciate you? are you his number one priority and person to go to or does he treat you like a princess.. do you guys share secrets?.. lotsa small things that might tell if he loves you or not!
@FRANZEZCO (6)
• Indonesia
11 Aug 09
Hi, No tear is useful even you are in sadness. Have you read "How to stop worrying and start living written by Dale Carnegie? Sadness is like a virus to harm and destroy your fatal health; rheumatic, high blood preasurre, heart disease, diabetes and uncontrolled digestive process. I suppose uncontact because your lover is still in sadness. I had also experienced like you when I was in high education. My Dad always says to me and his students a tear cannot find the way out. First you have to be ready to face the bad possibility between yours. Don't forget accept it then analyze how to improve it. Second, take your phone, call him. If he haven't response, just give a little message but not to the point. Third, give him enlightenment message. I think life following the power of your soul cool is a good sleep, beautiful music, a lot of alught and believe in God. If you're still breath, start living!We always look after six slaves in our love is going, don't we? Mr. What, Mrs.Why, Mr. When, Mrs. How, Mr. Where and Mrs Who have already to help us to find, to collect, to analyze and to decide what the best between us now. Remember where we meet first. Can we meet there? I have allowed our slaves there too. Could you get there, please?