I am too embarrassed after someone try to match making on me
By clorissa123
@clorissa123 (4926)
United States
August 11, 2009 3:51pm CST
Yesterday, I confessed that I like that girl on other department to one of female co - worker. She encouraged me to make a move on her, but I hesitated. So, after lunch time, my co - worker went up to her, and talk to that girl I like. The worst part, she mentioned my name, and she told her that I was so desperately want to take her out. I was so embarrassed after she(co -worker) told me everything. I couldn't believe she told her everything. Now, I am afraid to bump into her in the hallway. Because she knew that I have a crush on her. What would you do if you are in my situation?
6 responses
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
22 Aug 09
I think you should respond to your discussions more and appologize to Mike. You made him out to be a jerk when in fact he was only trying to help you. He is really upset by this. And to be honest...I see his point. You really don't respond to your discussions. He gave you good advice. just being honest.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
22 Aug 09
Hello Sid, I have been having some lovely little chats on these discssions of Clorissas, she has so many worries in her young life so I've been advising her to look for a nice young man. I'm hoping for a really nice chat when she sees my many many many responses to her but she will be very busy catching up because I've been giving her so much good advice.
@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
22 Aug 09
Agreed, Sid. Thea, you're probably wasting your breath. She don't respond to anything, just tries to get other members discredited.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
22 Aug 09
Oh Clorissa my dear, you must learn not to be embarrassed by a little match making, people only have your best interests at heart, just remember what I told you earlier in our other nice little chat about the face powder and gloves, just remember that and you won't feel so shy next time. It really is thoughtful of people to try and find you a nice young man, just try to hide your shyness.
@hegeguagua (12)
• China
12 Aug 09
It's definite a good chance for you to tell her what your feelings are.Don't hesitate anymore,just do it.You are deserved to have the one you really love.
@stephwrites (275)
• United States
11 Aug 09
ack! that is definitely awkward, clorissa. Did she say she wanted to go out wth you or that she just wanted to be friends? maybe she feels the same way and you should take the next step and go on a date. I guess it would depend on what she thought, that would make the awkwardness better or worse. find out what the co-worker said or what she said to her so you have more information to work with. then decide what to do.
@judy1988 (117)
• China
11 Aug 09
hi clorissa,since the girl has already knew,I think you should ask her out and told her your feeling,maybe she is the one for you,maybe she has the same feeling with you,don`t miss the chance,good luck,pal!
@Hi5oka (63)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 09
meh....,if you are scared then the first step is be a man bro.Face your fear,for a real man there is nothing to be fear execpt the fear it self.Soon or later you had to speak to her anyway.Well its too late to stop.She already know that you are in love with her.The sooner the better,if you beeing rejected well thats fine.At least you dont have to be courious anymore about her feeling towards you.Who knows ,what if she likes you too? Just talk to her and ask her to date.Mostly a women loves a brave men.
