what ages are good for getiing married?
By ke0nxz
@ke0nxz (75)
Indonesia
5 responses
@bluehibiscus (702)
• United States
12 Aug 09
I am 21, which is a very traditional age in my culture for getting married and my fiance will be 30 this January. I think the age difference is good and we have a lot in common.
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@ke0nxz (75)
• Indonesia
13 Aug 09
i agree with u.. i have different age with my GF too and its make the relatioonship have more respect for each other .. and everything runs good in my control..
i want to a husband .. with high responsibility to my family.. can u help me how to make this real .. how to build a good mentaly as a husband.. can i learn that from anything?
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@Jennlk84 (4205)
• United States
11 Aug 09
I don't think you have to be a certain age to get married. I think it's great that you've waited this long. I just got married this summer and I'm 25. It's kinda funny how I got married at 25 because I always thought this was the age that I would get married. The one time I would worry about marriage is if the couple is really young. Otherwise, as long as you're in love and you know you want to spend the rest of your life with your partner - why not? Go for it! :-)
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@ke0nxz (75)
• Indonesia
13 Aug 09
it just i dont have mental yet.. hahaa i still feel like iam 21 hmmp thats the problem.. maybe i should learn how to live with responsibility and growing up with mature decision.. i should learn more to be an adult hahaaa...
i still want to play around with friend hang out i dont feel realized that iam 26 next month
hmmp is that sad?
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@Laurie1986 (384)
• United States
25 Aug 09
I agree with those who say it's your mental age that matters. We can't answer this question for you. I know one couple that was married in 1972 when they were both 17 and they're still married...and some people aren't ready until they're 40. You need to look at yourself and your relationship and determine that.
One thing I can say is, it's kind of like having children...no one is ever really ready, because you don't know what it's like to be married until you're married. If it really feels wrong; don't do it...but know that it's taking a leap no matter how old you are. When in doubt, take the leap. You'll regret it if you don't. It's better to make the mistake than to always wonder if something would have been a mistake.
@kriscie_crazy (12)
• Philippines
21 Aug 09
Getting married is really a big thing in a relationship. I mean, this would be the day that you'll be facing another journey of your life. It doesn't matter if your 25, just as long as you are sure enough to face the consequences of getting attached with someone for the rest of your life. You also have to consider some things that really count on. Like your Future. Certainly, getting married is not all about bed of roses,I guess you have to be prepare financially,mentally and spiritually before tying the knot.
