I shouldn't have done it!
By keep_onwatch
@keep_onwatch (2680)
India
August 11, 2009 11:52pm CST
Did u ever feel like this? I mean looking back at your life, did u ever feel that you shouldn't have done that one little thing or it may b something major too. I feel that a lot, like i have done many mistakes and i shouldn't have done those. And coz of them im now in this position. I blame myself. I mean i dont always keep blaming myself, but sometimes thinking about it i just feel i shouldnt have done those. How about u ? do u feel like this anytime about ur past?
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6 responses
@sleblanc17 (139)
• Canada
12 Aug 09
No!
Sometimes I look at things I've done and say "well that was pretty stupid" but I live my life with no regrets.. so I take everything in stride and stay proud of what I've done and where I am.
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@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
12 Aug 09
Well thats the right attitude towards life, i just wish i too had that...thanx 4 ur response.
@ashley1171 (109)
• United States
12 Aug 09
I think and I'm only guessing right now is what you're feeling is regret. You should never live your life full of regrets. Don't look at your past as regret but as a learning experience. Say oh, I shouldn't have done that. But now I know for the future what works and what doesn't and what I should and shouldn't do.
Life is a winding road. You take many twists and turns, and you come to alot of speed bumps. But take it all in and use it as a learning experience and live your life with no regrets.
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@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
12 Aug 09
Yup i do have a hope of a better future and would never do the same things i have done in my life earlier. But i just cant take off the thought that if i did it teh other way around, i would have had a better life now...I just so wish i can take ur advice and live life with no regrets, but i just cant think that way, i just wish i did.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
24 Sep 09
Yeah! that happens a lot. Its like we help those ppl n they in turn forget all the favor n back fire!! i just wish they could see what they r doing n how badly that effects us!
@Hatley (163773)
• Garden Grove, California
12 Aug 09
hi keep onwatch yes I went back to university in my fifties
'to get my degree but I wanted to get a degree in Library science
but it was not offered at U of cal at Irvine so I opted for a degree in English instead.yet I have always been sorry I did not find a college who did offer a degree in library science, as that was really what I wanted. If I had a chance to do it over I would have found a college who did offer a degree in library science and would have gone there to get the right degree. but now I am okay anyway. just wish I had done otherwise.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
12 Aug 09
Sometimes it just slips and we dont get to go the things we wanted to do, and that leaves us in regret. But i hope life will give new chances and new hope for the future, even to u . Thanx 4 ur response.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
24 Sep 09
Hey,
Yes a lot of the time, I regret that I have done something. And in my lifetime it had happened quite a bit. I am mainly quite sad when I had made some very stupid choices when it comes to losing money to scams online. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
24 Sep 09
Yeah! the mistakes we think most certainly could be a mess, still we go ahead and do them.... They certainly deserve regret!
@irisspeedy3xc (64)
• United States
24 Sep 09
I know exactly how you feel. i do all the time, i made mistakes that they are big enough, and i regret them doing them. it chances your life, it change mind, and even though peoplle forgave me or told me it was ok, for some reason i cannot forgive myself i i blame myself for it. like you said not all the time, only when it hits my mind again. But there is nothing we can do i mean, we just have to learn to deal with it i guess, is part of the consequences
