What do people make the same choices again again and again?

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well i give you a strong example, some women always date man who hurt them and it happens again and again,finally he leave her, and next guy they date,after a few month,he start to hit them, and they with him a long time,they break up,they still wanna date another man,finally they find one man,he seems so nice,but guess what?few moth later,he also hit they a lot,that is a very serious situation obviously,why they chose the same kind of man again and again? we all do this sometimes,something in our life,we continue to make the same bad choices again andagain,personally,for example,eating food,i always eat chocolates and bad stuffs,I know its bad for me,and I try to stop eating,but every night,when i see them and i say"no,this is bad,i shouldn't do this" then maybe i try to ignore it one week and eat healthy foods,and then finally"ohhh!I get some chocolates again!" i know many people has similar question just like me,choices repeat again and again, "why do these women always do this?always chose the same kind of guy who hurt them?" "why do I eat the chocolates again and again!" we all don't want that,but something uncontrolled,so we all make the same choices again and again,What about your own life?What problems that you have in your life happen again and again? honestly,i think you might have many problems or interesting things in your life,me too,and I'd like to make friends with you right here,right now.so that we can exchange mind,right?don't worry,I'm a nice talking guy! ;)