Kissing the children.

hello ramesh, I guess this is what they says...parents love their kids,but would loved their grandkids much more. I was once disown by my parents becoz i married the man not of their choice. Million times we asked forgiveness but they seems deaf to hear our pledges. But when they learned that i was pregnant,they started to melt down. And when i delivered my first born...they really melted totally hehehe. So,another proof is your situation my friend.Grandparents really would do the unusual things to their grandkids . Wait till your grandkid grows,i bet you will be doing more things you haven't done with your kids before

hi ramesh it is basically Indian's .. my mother or father, never hugged or kissed us as long as i can remember .. now when i put my arms around my mother for support (she is older now) she will push my hands away .. she refuses when i hold her hands to cross the road ... But i have seen different view from my husbands family, the mother even tries to kiss my husbands mouth and he will push her away .. the sisters will lie on the brothers chest .. they are very close family ... But me when i have my kids, i will make sure i will hug them and kiss them .. cheers

A long time ago, I could not imagine being a mother. Children annoyed me, they were noisy, messy, demanding, dirty... So, once, I was the sort who did not like children. Then one day, it all changed. I discovered that I wanted to be a mom. Long story short, I finally got pregnant, had my son almost 4 years ago, and I can't imagine my life without him! I hug and kiss him every chance I get, and he hugs and kisses me too! I believe openly expressing your love by hugging/kissing is invaluable to a child's mental health... This will teach him to be kind, gentle and loving, and honest with his feelings. I want my little boy to grow up to be an affectionate man, to his wife and his own children. I don't mean to say that you can't teach these things to a child by other means, but I just believe hugs and kisses are the more natural, honest and simplest ways to teach and show affection. I wonder, does your daughter hug/kiss her new daughter? I only wonder because some people follow suit and others decide to be different, when it comes to their own children. For example, my son's father hardly ever heard the words "I love you" or got hugs/kisses from his own father... As a grown man, he's decided that he doesn't want his son to grow up like that and constantly is hugging, kissing and saying ILY to our son. One the other hand, I grew up with very affectionate parents and followed suit... Just curious which way your daughter went?? BTW - congrats on your granddaughter!

Same here with me I do not remember kissing or hugging my children, But when my niece delivered a child I felt like holding and kissing the child, I think it is a natural tendency.

I am forever hugging and kissing my daughter but she is only a baby, i think once she gets a little older i wont do it so often. You dont need to hug and kiss your children all of the time for them to know that you love them

Is there a reason why you decide not to show the children affection in public or in private? Nothing against that, but I am just curious... I am the complete opposite, I can't help kissing and hugging my kids, it's like an addiction for me lol. So you have started cuddling and kissing your grand daughter? Wonderful!!!!!!

Hi rameshkumaar, I guess we are all different but I always found it very natural to hug and kiss our children, it's the way we display our love. I still hug my adult children and hug and kiss my grandchildren, but certainly we don't all think alike. Blessings.

Good day rameshkumaar57, Well for me, I really love kissing my baby. She is almost 2 months old now, when she was born she was a premature. I am the one who usually hug her and carry her on my arms . I am very happy that I have her.

i have two children, they are still little kids, so i really love to hug and kissing them in private or public place, i don't care about others watching us or not, in my mind only thing they are still little kids, they still need our attention. But after my first kid 7 yo and second class at primary school, he ask me don't kiss him at front of his friend, cause he shame with his friends, so i stop kissing him at school, but i still kissing him at home. i thing this kissings is important to them cause they are still little kids and can create inner bond, they still have pure emotion. so i thing never mind if we kissing them or cuddle them. at your case, that is the emotion what i am talking about, the pure emotion from our heart, and that's make the baby love our touch and create inner bond between you and the baby.

This is the love ~