What are the qualities that attract you to your partner?
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
August 12, 2009 11:07am CST
There must be some factors that attracted you to your partner/spouse.
caring,
attractive appearance
morals
humor,
special talents
intelligence
etc etc....
9 responses
@simonelee (2715)
• China
13 Aug 09
hello, vijayanths! I can't exactly tell what makes me attract towards my partner,all i know is that he is totaly opposite to me. We are much different when it comes to thinking, views, perception towards things but we end up agreeing in ones ideas and that's make our relationship stronger.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
13 Aug 09
No wonder opposite poles attract each other. have a happy life for ever, simonnelee.
@threnos (216)
• Canada
12 Aug 09
I am attracted to someone because of their kindness, their sense of humour, their moral values and generally just their spirit. If they are a good person this is the most attractive thing there is to me!
@soulist (2985)
• United States
12 Aug 09
Some of the things that attracts me to the guy I am talking to are that he makes me laugh, he is attractive in appearance, he has a great heart and a wonderful compassion for people around him. We have the same religion so we understand each other, he is very intelligent. I admire him greatly and is the perfect guy for me.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
13 Aug 09
that is nice. Life will be really beautiful when you are living with your perfect match. What else you could want?
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
12 Aug 09
Hi there, well what i love with my hubby was he was responsible, he was working hard for me and to our daughter. He is also kind although sometimes when his mad he really show to me how mad he is. I love him for being so true to himself. Everytime he feel happy or sad he show it to me without being plastic. I love him because he understand me always, he support me and i love him because i know he really loves me, keep on mylotting
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
12 Aug 09
Hard working, responsible man would attract any woman. You are lucky kmaram to have married a great man.
@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
12 Aug 09
Well I can say a lot of things that made me attracted to my husband. First of all he is a nice and decent guy that knows how to respect a woman. He is tall and I have a soft spot for taller people. I also like the way we share our interests.
We do have a lot of things to share about so i guess that made me closer to him every day till we got married. We do love each other and that is the most important of all.
He also used to make me laugh and do something funny. He also does make me feel angry too but it is just balance in our relationship. Happy Mylotting.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
12 Aug 09
unity in differences keeps the life interesting. If your hubby is making you laugh all the time, life may sound a bit boring. When he makes you angry and when you become cool once again it is interesting.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
12 Aug 09
Hello Vijay,
Qualities?....
Music lover and has good singing voice quality,that was the best quality he posses.Yes,he is wedding singer,it was his voice that really attracts me in the first place.The way he strum the guitar and he plays the piano.(that was long ago dear)
here's some lines from the song he sings that melts me
" i kneel besides you here today
i kneel besides you and i pray
that it's you,and only you
who will share my tomorrows and yesterdays.
i search a lifetime and found you
a bridge to forever i share you
open your heart and let me in
as i give you this promise of love.
now that i have you for my own
as God our witness never let you go
feeling one heart as we become one
one heart,one hand,we are one soul
i stand before you just a man
i need your help to understand
what is life,when there is you
as i promise you this day and forever
this promise of love."
wasn't it beautiful enough to make me believe?
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
12 Aug 09
It is more than beaitiful jaiho. I love reading poems and writing poems.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
I am being practical here. If God will give me someone I wish that someone will truly love me, support me, believe in me and save me. Hope that I am really inspired with him so that I will be happy. Hopefully he will love my family as he love me, because my family is my life. As of now there is no one that made me feel happy as I am single. I do not expect if God will give me one. I am not waiting for it. I already accepted I will be single for life.
@pushkin69 (546)
•
12 Aug 09
Hey there. There are many qualities that attracted me to my partner. She is intelligent, funny, caring, sincere, honest, emphathetic, free-spirited, creative and also beautiful. I have the whole package with her. We have many of the same interests and aspirations for our life together. I am so lucky!
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
12 Aug 09
Very nice to hear that from you pushkin. I wish you both love each other with the same spark you have now for ever.