your friend & your hubby

Get rid of both of them and move on. Wish them a happy future.

To be quite honest I know how it feels, my ex boyfriend was quite a flirt. And it's often hard to tell if it's innocent or not. I suggest bringing it up... you never know if it's just flirting (which is still bad) or something that may be actually going on. Another thing to consider is have they had any past relationship at all? Even if it was unserious dating there's always something when it comes to that to worry about.

Hello nirjaagrey and welcome to mylot! I am so sorry that you are experiencing this from your husband. Are you sure that you just aren't reading the signs wrong? hopefully you are! How long have you been friends with this lady? Do you think that they would cross that line? If I ever found out that the person that was susposed to be my significate other is having an affair with someone who I claim to be my friend there would be a big issuse and maybe even a divorce at hand. I would feel like this if you love me then why? I would also feel like how could you tell me that you loved me and that you care but you were sleeping with my friend? You should not have to del with this and accept this, you should not have to compete for your husbands attenetion because that is the reason why you guys are married because you had already caught his eye. When you guys are in the comfort of your own home you need to tell him exactly how you feel and find out if there s something going on between them. I definately would because you deserve to be happy and he is a married man anyways so why would hebe flirting with your friend? Is she single? That is besides the point anyways because a true friend would never allow yourhusband to step out of place like that with them anyways. An apology is due whether they were flirting or not. Let your husband know what ou observed and let him know that if he keeps it up that he just may lose a wonderful girl. Well nirjaagrey hopefully everything works out for you and things get better. Until next time NakitaLikely3617 is out! Be safe and be blessed. Send me a friends request too!

if this is for real, i'd not be happy. someone would be moving out of home. but at the same time have you busted them, if you've been friends for a long time it may be just innocent. but i do know if that was happening to me i'd be rather p.... off.

I'm very sorry your husband is treating you bad like this. I would feel sad and terrible if I had a husband doing this. Are you sure he is having an affair with your friend. I guess she's not really a friend then. I can see him having a little fun maybe, not in a flirtish way. But I can't see him spending most of the night paying attention to your friend. Maybe you should have a serious talk with your husband and lay some ground rules. You don't have to stay with him.

I am not a girl...i am a dude so I am concidering hubby as my wife and frnd is male...surely I do not feel anything beacause I know this is nothing but flirting...