how does it feel to be in love? what are signs of falling in love?
By Belle109
@Belle109 (23)
Philippines
7 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
Hello Belle,
To love and be loved by someone is one of the greatest experience a person could ever say.It is a feeling that no one can ever define it's real meaning.Love can be define in so many ways and words,but,only people who had been in love will ever understand the true meaning of it.Love is a feeling that materially cannot be eaten,but tasted sweet,and sour and bitter when it turns bad.
There are lot's of signs when someone fall in love.
Can't stop thinking him/her,having sleepless night thinking.
Can't even eat or do,can't concentrate what he/she doing becoz his/her mind is thinking someone.
When someone he/she loves is infront/seen/glimpse of,he/she feels uncomfortable or even blushing.
These are just some signs of falling in love.
And you will feel the real meaning of it when you will fall in love
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
uhmm..yah,it's so easy to say and write things from own experiences...it's like turning back the hand of time hahaha
@wergild (189)
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
Ok for starters you see these cute boy/girl. Every time you see him or her you blood pressure rises. You sweat you mumble you palpitate and stumble about your words. You do stupid things and do other things that you never though you could do. You think about him or her a lot and you find him the most handsome man in the world of or he most beautiful woman in the universe.
Now ask yourself are you inlove? The answer is a loud resounding NO! Its either romance or your hormones is just on overdrive. hahaha
So how do you know its love? How does it feel to be in love?
Take this example: i used to giggle whenever I see grandpa carry grandma in his arms to take her to bed and put her to sleep. After that he reaches for his pain reliever because his back hurts for all the time he carried grandma. He always told me that it doesn't matter if his back hurts everyday from all that stupid romantic stunt. Whats important is that he makes grandma happy whenever she falls asleep.
A national leader returns to his country despite warnings that he is putting his life at risk. Unmindful of dangers to himself and his family, he returns home to his country to lead the opposition and campaign for reforms. He is gunned down the moment he steps on his motherland, not knowing if he will fail or not.
From these examples, you know its love when you are willing to sacrifice. The only true feeling of love that you feel is the willingness to sacrifice and you know you are in love when you love yourself enough to sacrifice yourself for your ideals and other things or person that you love.
And there's nothing corny about it.
@Belle109 (23)
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
wow! that's a great answer. i agree with you Mr. wergild... i think being able to sacrifice is the ultimate indicator that a person is truly in love.
if it's a rise of blood pressure, palpitation, sweat and mumbling, or a blissful feeling, it may just be a sign of being infatuated which may not last long. thanks!
@wergild (189)
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
There's a huge difference between a romance and love. a hell of a difference.
Romance blooms instantly. Like this thing called love at first sight? It's not love. Love blooms true the times and it takes time before you can say it love.
Romance makes you happy and gives you a reason to smile. Love is tested by trials, by suffering by sadness.
Love and romance both involves fighting for the person. The big difference is romance is fighting to win the person you are fighting for. Fighting for the very heart of the person you love.
Love is also fighting. Fighting for the person you love, without the thought of winning. Love is fighting when you no longer have anything to give and nothing to win.
@prashanthalva (2272)
• India
14 Aug 09
Are You In Love? I want to know First .. If you are Not .. Then You Have to fall in Love to Experience it .. It Cannot be explained .. You Got to feel It To Know How Love Bites you .. Do Fall in Love if you Haven't Already .. Words Can Never Express Love ..
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
i think it's love when you're already willing to sacrifice in order for you to make him/her happy. but that's the deeper side. uhmmm... i guess it's love when you're so happy to be with the person and you're very much inspired to do everything regardless if you're going to succeed in the end or not... :)
@shhheila (1845)
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
You will just know, its a feeling thats hard to explain. You get the warm fuzzys when you see that person. Or when youre not with them youre thinking about them all the time. You start thinking about "we" instead of me or I, like would we like this or we could go here or there type of thing. Its the best feeling in the whole world
@virusxtreme24 (805)
•
14 Aug 09
When you can't get the person out of your mind, I suppose? Or when you accidentally let their name slip out when having a conversation with friends. Haha
@shhheila (1845)
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
You will just know, its a feeling thats hard to explain. You get the warm fuzzys when you see that person. Or when youre not with them youre thinking about them all the time. You start thinking about "we" instead of me or I, like would we like this or we could go here or there type of thing. Its the best feeling in the whole world