Obedience...are you an obedient child to your parents?

I am happy to say that I've always and honestly most of the time listen to my parents and been a good child all the time. but i guess not stepping out on the box and challenge yourself could cause a tremendous failure in life, because some how i knew what was the best for me, and not what the parents think..it cost me to be what i am today[em]cry[/em. i am trying to get up though

I'm an adult now with two children of my own, but I can still say that I am obedient to my parents for the most part. Of course, as you become an adult there are certain things that you disregard your parents about, but still their advice is almost always good advice. I think I was normal in that I did disobey to a certain extent, but I don't think there is a person alive that obeys every single thing that their parents ever say.

i am a parent myself already, but i can say as a child i can say i am one of the normal child. ican say that i am obidient in some ways. when myh parents say that i can not go out then i just stay home even if its the birthday of one of my friends not like other children who gets out of the house when parents are sleeping already. in case of having bf, they dont get to the point on choosing the bf for me or telling me to break up with someone they dont like. they are not that kind of parents. they also know that life and experience are godd teachers as well.

The last time I disobeyed my father was when I was going to enroll for college. He wanted me to take Computer but I took Electronics instead. But I have no regrets. Though I am working in front of computers right now, I already showed my father that I wasn't wrong at all. I worked with my course related jobs for over ten years, before I came to be a computer expert, as they say...

I don't listen to my parents and question them very frequently lol. I don't think its fair that my parents can tell me that I can or can't do something and I just have to sit there and take it, thats not really a fair shake for me. If my parents did tell me to break up with my girlfriend, I'd probably lose it all over them lol.

Jai beta My parents are no more, but i was a very obedient child to them and to all senior members, my kids are so obedient to me and my wife.. Thanks for sharing Cheers. BE HAPPY ALWAYS. Blessings Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .

I had to be an obedient child to my parents.I was brought up that way by my mother's thrashings.I had not other go but be obedient.

I can say I was always obedient to parents. But at times, I have my own ideology and observation too. I like to take decisions myself based on situation and my analysis.

hi jaiho I was until I was in my late twenties and my dad felt he could still mAke me do his bidding. He dislikes my choice of mate and wrote me out of his will.I surprised him and married my choice. so what is a million if you cannot marry the man you love?It must have been a good marriage for we were married fo 43 years.

Hi, I would say that I am a good child of my parents. I never quarrel with my parents before and we have a very close relationship with each other. They are always part of my life and be it , we are living far away,but we always keep in touch with each other.

Yes, ofcourse im a obedient child and obey my parnets because i think whatever the tell us advises us to do they do that for us to have a safe and happy life sometimes i feel bad when they not allow me to go out with friends but afterwards i feel they d this because they don't want their children to e in danger or bad situation and as far as bf or fiancee is concerned not happened with me yet that we have a different opinions on a boy if he is bad then only they will ask for a break up which has not happened yet with me.

I really don't know much about myself in this issue. When I am asked to come down for some chores, I usually say later to my parents. And I also ignore my mother calling me when I am surfing the web. But when I am free I do anything that my parents ask me. Happy mylotting!

I kind of obey my parents. They are very free minded and easy going and tell that my choices are up to me. But yeah I disobey them sometimes. Like if they say we want you home by 10 and im home by 11 my excuse is ohh there was traffic on the road. Stuff like that. But if they didn't like my boyfriend then i would do what i feel is best you know. But come on now everyone disobeys their parentals. Like when i went out with friends joy riding they said no boys, and there were more boys than girls in the car. They said don't do stupid things and we did. I disobey to an extent were i won't get hurt and i have control of the situation.

I was until become an adult, then my mother was medling too much and now I have to argue. She never respected much but she is much better now. Until 22 or 24 I would do anything they ask and say just okay, yes, sure.

When I was young, sometimes I'm not obey my parents. I mean, I'm not always do the order or the restriction from my parents. That had happened because : I don't think for the next of my step in my life, egoism. I can not ask "WHY" to my parents, because in our manners ( especially in 1960 - 1980 ) ,asking "Why" to the parents is a like a taboo ("PAMALI" in Indonesian/Sundanese). We just listen and silence if the parents talk or order something. I just said "YES" in front of them but I'm not obey them (just for 1 or 2 thing). Until one day, I realized that the obey to my parents is the important one in my life. My parents said : Now, you just take the Goodness of your fault.

When I was child I am an obedient child to my parents, all they said I will consider to be right, and did not obey it. when I grow up, sometimes I think they are wrong, I would discuss with them .Now they are old, I have few argument with my parents, because I know that many things they love me. They do love me.

It depends. If my parents call me or need my help I will be there, eventhough I'm busy with browsing the net or do my homework. But if they don't allow me to do something, for example going out with my friend, I will ask first, what's the reason. If the reason non sense or they just hyper protective I will speak my opinion and try to get what I want. But if the reason is logic and acceptable, I will obey them. So, I don't know I'm obedient or not. I'm not blindly obeyed all my parents say, I need reason, proof and example before do something. My parents already know this and thus they always provide reason and example case before tell me I can't do this or tell me why I must do that.. That's me If it's about my bf, I will try to convince them that my bf is not a bad person and I will meet my parents with my bf, try to make them understand each other and star conversation.. That's happen to me now, my parents don't like my bf, but they don't know he already my bf.. I still young and don't have any plan to let them know except I've already plan to married or I wanna serious relationship..

Certainly,I am an obedient child during my childhoold ...seldom brought trouble to my parents ...But to tell the truth,I did not obey each thing my parents told me to do.For instance,after passing my College Entrance Exam I didn't chose the university they selected for me but myself...