Who Is More Selfish In Bed, Mostly? Men Or Women?

India
August 14, 2009 2:23am CST
Women say men are very selfish beings in bed. They argument is that men just satsify themselves without thinking of his wife or girlfrds needs. Men on the other hand accuse women for being too passive and enjoying the fun silently.Who is more selfish?
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@radx682 (327)
• India
14 Aug 09
hmm...I think both have to satisfy each other and it is important to share each other's view after they are done...only then each other can try satisfying them next time... preethaanju if something is difficult for a man to control....so is the same for a woman too...so both have to be satisfied in all ways...so giving the excuse of "m...." is not fair...women also feel dejected if they are not satisfied. In my view, satisfaction of both is important. If either of the is not satisfied, then it means the other is selfish for that moment.
• India
15 Aug 09
Yes a rule of fairness, both have to be statisfied. But generally men dont think of the women thx
15 Aug 09
To Preet, How can you say such a statement 'but generally men don't think of the woman' when you haven't even experienced being in bed with a man youself as you stated above? It depends on the situation sweetheart, if you are in love with a man and have a healthy relationship there would be no reason why he wouldn't want to satisfy you too. The man would actually care more that you got your satisfaction instead of thinking if his satisfied himself. You probably read to much stories on the net, if you feel men aren't caring then you need to find those who do care...and not generalize without any experience yourself...
• India
16 Aug 09
Am scared of ur monsterous answer... haha. Yes true i am not expreinced.. But is it necessary that a doctor have to become a patient before he can suggest medicines? thx
• Malaysia
14 Aug 09
hi preet it depends on the relationship .. if they are lovers, they want to see the partner satisfied if the relationship is sexed based then there will be selfisness cheers
• Malaysia
15 Aug 09
preet i guess i do not agree on this .. because i have seen man who are so loving and caring towards their wife ... in and off the bed .. this includes my husband
• India
15 Aug 09
men are men, whether he is a lover or not. He looks at his own satsifaction than his women's thx
@frinces (433)
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
I don't know most of men but my boyfriend is, sometimes yes, selfish in bed, lol! He would lure me at first. Give me lots of kisses. He would drown me into pleasure until I am ALMOST satisfied. He would suddenly stop and he would ask me to do it back to him until he is FULLY satisfied. I am tired but I want more while he would sleep because he is already done. Thank you, preethaanju for starting this discussion because before I can't understand him. Now I would know if my boyfriend is not the only one like that.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
14 Aug 09
I won't say men are selfish. I will say both women and men are selfish in their own ways, but there is a lot of consideration towards the partner. Also, there is a thought in most of our mids that if you can make your partner happy, you are successful and that brings a lot of happiness to you. So, it has two parts which are euqally important - your happiness and your partner's happiness.
• India
14 Aug 09
Daliaji, personally i wouldnt blame men for being selfish. You know most men have this heculean task of keep the missile ready. If he delays the launch by even a few seconds, either the missile misfires orloses its potent force. So to make sure that the missile hits the target with force and accuracy, most men tend to fire it instantly and relax. What happens to the target is not his concern.. thx
@rajupaul (973)
• India
15 Aug 09
dailaj You are true. Both men and women are selfish.To get the happiness both of partner to be sacrifice from both end. Then only we can be happy. Right
@jugsjugs (12967)
15 Aug 09
yes the men are selfish in bed as they always get to like you say satisfy themselves and never ensure that the women get sattisfied.Us women have to take our time as it can take a while to have a climax.
@meapas (2436)
• India
15 Aug 09
How did you know this? I never heard any woman saying this about her husband/boyfriend or any man saying this about his wife/girfriend.
• India
16 Aug 09
U may not have heard meapas.. but my frds say this.. thx