Finding a new church
By Jennlk84
@Jennlk84 (4206)
United States
August 14, 2009 9:54pm CST
My husband and I have just recently moved. We're hoping to soon find a church to start going to. My question is - how do you shop around for a church? I've gone to the same church for all 25 years of my life! The thoughts of finding a new church scare me a bit.
So I was hoping to hear from others who have had to "shop around" to find a new church to start going to.
6 responses
@sysdexlicwriter (1619)
• United States
15 Aug 09
I think the first thing to do is pray and ask God to help you see where you should attend. As you are open to His guidance, begin to look through the phone book, internet, and local papers. Make a list of the churches you think may fit your particular beliefs. The next step is to visit church websites or call and find out the statement of beliefs.
While no church is perfect and it is hard to lock into a new group of people, you may find that this will be a wonderful new experience for you and your family. I pray that you will find where you fit and be able to bless your new community.
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@LaurenInLA (2270)
• United States
15 Aug 09
I guess that it's easy for me because I'm Catholic so if I move to a new area, I simply attend the closest Catholic church. Are you a particular denomination? I would start ther and attend the churches that are nearby. If that isn't a particular concern to you, I would just start attending churches that are nearby until I found one that I liked. Have you made any new friends yet or met any of your neighbors? They can be a great source to tap into as well. Best of luck to you.
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@Jennlk84 (4206)
• United States
15 Aug 09
I am Lutheran and my husband and I just got married in a Lutheran church. So he's willing to stick with that for me. :-) We don't have many neighbors since we live in the country and I'm pretty sure that neither of the ones closest to us go to church. I'm trying to use the internet as a tool but unfortunately it appears there are only two Lutheran churches in our area and one of the two doesn't even have a website.
@2timothy (794)
• Philippines
15 Aug 09
I have collected 26 (all starts in C) criteria people use to choose a church, Companionship, Convenience, Charismatic Clergy, Colossal Congregation, Culinary Cooking, Color Constituents, Communication, Creed, Class, Crystal Cathedrals, Courtship Commitment, Commercial Contribution, Celebrity, Career..., details in www.geocities.com/timothy_ah/26church.html
If you have just moved to New York, here is one, www.thechurchinrochester.org
Here's a hymn on "There's a church in New York City", www.hymnal.net/hymn.php?t=h&n=1263
If you have moved somewhere else, www.localchurches.org
May the good Samaritan guide you to the inn (His church).
@sandymay16 (1617)
• Philippines
15 Aug 09
Protestant churches which have bigger membership usually have a "branch" in other places. Usually when members of these church transfer or are transient in one place then they go find their church. Catholic churches have theirs too. I know friends just go whatever church they find in the area.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
15 Aug 09
Do you have any neighbors or friends in the area who share the same religious beliefs? If so, ask them what church they go to & "shadow" them if you can to a mass.
Otherwise..I think I've heard of people literally going to ONE mass - sitting in the back row, and deciding whether or not they "feel it", and go to a new one every week until you find one you like. It's weird, but I would imagine that church go-ers are open to meeting new friends of similar beliefs, so it's not like they'll shun you or something because you're not a regular. . Good luck, though, girl!
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@awynne1 (22)
• United States
21 Aug 09
Don't be afraid to call churches and ask questions. Find out what they believe and if you agree with them. Also, by calling, you will form opinions based on your interactions with the person you are talking to. Somewhere along the way you will feel comfortable with visiting a new church.