Ever felt so close to someone here at mylot?
By Citychic
@Citychic (4067)
United States
August 15, 2009 1:57pm CST
Hey friends, have you ever felt so close to someone here at mylot that you felt like you wanted to come right through the computer and sit down right beside them? As sometimes we can become so engaged in our discussions that we feel closer and closer to one another, so have you ever felt this way before? Waiting to hear from you.
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11 responses
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
15 Aug 09
Well, I prefer to be looking in some ones eyes when I am speaking to them. So for me I feel this way about nearly everyone.
But yes, true meaningful relationships do form in all mediums of communication. It is truly an amazing thing. I love all of my MyLot friends, but you are most right their are a few who stand out above the others. But, I won't name any names, because their are also a few users, that aren't privileged enough to by my friends, that I would rather not read what they have to say.
Oh geez, I do sound full of myself in this post, and the one I wrote just before it. Must be all the self confidence building I have been doing lately.
Cheers.
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@Citychic (4067)
• United States
16 Aug 09
You go CJScott. I understand what you mean and I'm one of those people that feel like I have to look a person in the eyes too. Oh well, a long time ago it used to be a sign of respect to look someone in he eyes. But the world is changing from what I hear and nowadays some people don't like for you to look them in the eyes, they might feel as if you are trying to challenge them. So I'm just careful about who I choose to look at in the eyes nowadays eeek, I'm hot to trot tonight!
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@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
16 Aug 09
If they consider it a challenge that is their problem not mine. I consider it a sign of respect. And in the end, it is my opinion that matters, not theirs, looking some one in the eyes is not a violation of their rights.
Cheers.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
16 Aug 09
hello citychic!
yes i do...actually i have friends in real life here, i mean they are already my friends before we came up here on mylot and we are really close that i will surely love it if we will sit beside each other and just talk and have fun...
now, with regards to some people that i just met here, well i think i have couple of friends here that i would like to be with and become more closer to them...they are the people that i feel like we really have same interests and i really enjoy answering their discussions and reading their comments...hehehe
but i think it will be fun to be with any mylot member...those friendly mylot member...
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@Citychic (4067)
• United States
16 Aug 09
Close mylot friends..........
Hi ckyera, thanks for the update. I know exactly what you mean. I enjoy chatting with the friendly ones myself. Oh well, i"M being interrupted so I guess I'll chat back with you soon....... take care and have a great evening. Thanks for responding!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Aug 09
hi citychic oh yes indeed I have.like pyewacket And Lori
and dear pikey and the lamb, they touch me they make me
laUgh, they become real as I respond to their discussions
and I have only named a few, there are many others too
that I am drawn to, there was one lady here that I grew
close to as she strove to get away from her abusive husband
And I followed her discussions closely, then I never saw
any more from her so wondered what had happened to her and
her kids.we do get caught up at times with others here and
I guess thats part of why I love mylot.
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
16 Aug 09
Yes, there are quite a few people I have felt pretty close to. I think it would be nice if we could all meet but due to us living so far apart, it might not be possible. You never know, though. You really get to know people better after you meet them in person. You still don't really know them unless you have known them for several years, if that makes sense. Kathy.
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@Citychic (4067)
• United States
16 Aug 09
Oh Lordie, Lordie, Lord, lord, I write you this long comment kathy and somehow the computer just ate it up. Anyhow as I was saying before I was so rudely interrupted. I was thinking that it would be nice if all of us mylotters could some day get together. But then I thought how difficult it might be for some to come if they are coming from distant lands. But you never know. In these days just about anything is possible. Thanks for responding, Happy mylot!
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
16 Aug 09
I'm glad you finally got to me after all of your problems, lol! I feel like the distance would be a problem. One of my mylot friends lives in Seattle, Washington, for example, and I live in Alabama. That is quite a ways! For those who live overseas, that's even worse. I've been to Seattle, Washington, btw. I used to travel a lot and I was lucky enough to get to go there in the summer of 1988. Kathy.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
16 Aug 09
There are a few here that I feel I can relate to and I feel certain closeness too. It is not necessarily because of common interests or similar life experiences; it is hard to explain what brings two people close especially when they have never met face to face it is a way of seeing the world I guess, that’s it, it appears that there’s a few MyLotters her that although different from me see the life they way I do!
@shegunx (33)
• Indonesia
16 Aug 09
I never felt so close (yet) here at mylot, maybe it is because I not often be here.
but I'm gonna take my time more to be here coz I got a lot of great topic to discuss and sometimes it is usefull for me.
I'm going to take the soul fo MYLOT......
And it is starting now ...
@Shery32 (423)
• Saudi Arabia
16 Aug 09
Hi,
Unfotunatly, not yet :D but I've seen some MyLotters who are really interesting and who I feel like I know but I don't. I like some of MyLotters thinking and feel like we could connect but I'm new at MyLot and need more time. I think it is great to feel close to someone or some MyLotters as it is a great site with many lovely discussions.
Happy MyLotting and thanks for sharing
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@vandana7 (100300)
• India
16 Aug 09
I liked iskayz, and opinionated lady. There is another person out here who has not accepted my invitation to be my friend, but I sincerely like her opinions and may be it is my tone that she felt too aloofish. I dont know. But I hope someday she will be my friend. Her name is maximax8. Webearn99 is another person whom I could influence towards my thinking so I think we could have been good friends.
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