My Husband is a THIEF

OH Honey, I would draw the line. When it comes to my camera it is a prize item for me. It is time that you took a stand. No more hubby welcome in without me being there and watching every move he makes. Do you think that he thinks it is okay to take your stuff because of who you are to him? Or is he one of those kind of people that has to steal to make himself complete? Whatever the reason is it still is no good at all. Let him know how you feel and don't take any excuses for the cause. Stand up and say NO WAY DUDE THAT IS MINE Good Luck. Im routing you on.

Bloody hell!! Girl divorce his a$$ and make sure he pays twice the amount the camera costs. Unbelievable... you would think your husband should be there for you but his there to get you.. how ridiculous.. So sorry you're going through this hun. You deserve so much better..

change the locks..big time.if starts breaking in,call the cops on him. if he doesn't need them,he's probably doing it to make you mad. chances are he would take the whole box..but if you own where you live,drill holes in the bottom and bolt it to the floor.there's no way he could quietly remove that.

Have you called the police and told them your suspicions? That is breaking and entering and petty theft at the least, not to mention tresspassing. How does he get in? Secure your house or apartment, change the locks, add window locks, etc. Get an order of protection so you'll have a legal leg to stand on if he begins harassing you in other ways and that will also increase the penalty of the charges of B&E, etc.

Hello charblaize, Can't you change the door locks so he can't come into you house?or are you still living together? This so upsetting,if he keeps stealing your things,then,maybe he can even stealy your money whenever you got cash keep in your house. I don't think it's safe living with someone like him...can you have any safer place to live in my friend,and move all your things too.

That sounds really awful. I don't know if he is angry at you or what. I hope you report him to the police and get your possessions back. Could you put them in a storage locker or at a Friend's house for safekeeping?

Are you legally separated? Maybe you should file a police report or restraining order. I would be very upset as well if someone were coming into my home and taking my things. Taking legal action may be your only defense against this. It may not be the way you want to go but may become necessary.

First of all you leave a lot unsaid. Are you and your husband seperated? Do you still want to be married to him? Do you live in a community property state. If he is legally your husband and he has contributed to the household cost, expenses and even things you bought and you live in a community property state he might be within his legal rights to take it. Do you have a restraining order against him? If he is giving it to someone else, why? Who bought it? With what or who's money. Your angry but like I said you left a lot unsaid and so even if he took it you may or may not have legal grounds. If he is not living there why is that, did he move out or did you kick him out. Who owns the house. Does he have a key to your house? If so why not change the locks for starters and get a restraining order. Sounds like you either need a counselor or an attorney.

I don't think that your husband is a thief. Maybe he is a kleptomaniac. Kleptomania is an obsessive impulse to steal regardless of economic need. You should talk to him and ask him why he does things like that. Maybe he doesn't want to steal it but because he has kleptomania, he is implused to do it. You need to be calm and understanding to him.

Hello Charblaize, that is a shame you can't even trust him with ur camara, so why don't you just get a lock on the door. The question is this is he still your husband? If so there is nothing that the police can do if he decides to come to your house and take something out. Because according to the law, everything that is acquired between a husband and a wife during marriage is considered, joint property. So you would have to get a legal divorce from him if you want to try to hold him liable for something.So you might as well get over it and just go on and let him have it if he calls himself stealing something from you.

As it seems you don´t live together anymore, I´d change locks in the entire house. It´s the least expensive thing to do. And maybe I would file a complaint somewhere so he doesn´t break into the house later.

It sure does not feel good hearing about the kind of relationship you have with your husband. But I really think he should not be stealing your stuff! Maybe you should have a nice long talk with him. And one more thing I got to say is that I am amazed that you don't leave your house locked! Why how can you count on all your stuff being where it was when your house is not locked when you are not there? Anyway, my Regards!

Wow!!! please do take it easy! we don't want the house to explode. Since both of you are in a tight position the best thing to do is to change the locks or even the door itself. keep him out!! tell him that of he needs anything she should give you a call! Am also guessing he has equal rights to the house to! but i think its best you move your things to one room and his to another if that's the case. Separating your belongings would be the best thing right now so as not to get in each other's way! Hope its not too bad as it sounds! Best of luck! Pls stay safe!

Have you asked your husband about the camera? It sounds like you need to change your locks.

If your husband does not live in your house anymore then why is he still able to enter at his own will? you should have your door locks changed or at least another lock that he doesn't have a key to. You may have conjugal rights when it comes to your possessions but that is not the way to exercise it, just by taking whatever he sees inside your house.

hi charblaize if he wasnt your husband you would report him' to the police, so just do it,it looks like you aNd him are headed for splitzville so turn him over to the police now 'aNd next decide when to file for divorce.he haS no right to take your things. chaNge the lock and if he still manages' to get in call the police again.hes a thief and thieves should be reported,simple as that. if he was a nice man he wou ld not sneak around stealing your things. put a stop to it now.

I am sorry to know this,, but u call him husband,, nobody should interfere,, hope u get over this pain

That's terrible the fact that some one stole something to you is bad, but if it's your husband, then it's worse than being stolen by a strange guy. at least you know him, and it's really hard to accept the he is doing this. i agree that you should file a divorce and have those stolen materials. what was he thinking?

Wow this is deep, maybe if you tell him you will call the police on him next time he takes something from you he will stop, I am sorry you are going through this,hope things will get better for you.

Well he is your husband sit both of them and talk if still no resolution come then report to the police