How many of you will give a chance to a ugly person?In a relation of course!!!

Looks are not the only thing that draw me to a person. Sometimes their personality shines out or some other reason and they appear more physically attractive to me at the time than they actually are. So yes I will give an "ugly" person a chance, not always though. There are many other things besides personality that create attraction though: smell, money, drunkenness-hehe, etc.

I would have to admit that appearance made me push through to court my wife. But over the years, I've realized that the reason I'm loving her more is not because of her looks but because of her attitude. My wife is kind and down-to-earth. She's also sweet and caring. I guess that's what really matters in a relationship. Remember that beauty will fade some time.

Wow, this discussion really disgusts me. What is ugly to you might not be to me. And if you get to know the person, suddenly they don't look as "bad" if they are a wonderful, beautiful person. So, hopefully, all of us adults give everyone a "chance". I am hoping we all figured out the "judging a book by it's cover" never works when we were very young and judge people by how they act and who they are by now.

I think we have to give chance a ugly person because they looks like ugly but from their inside of heart they are so beautiful . So have to believe them . We have to give them chance for relation.

my son's dad is ugly...in all aspects looks and attitude plus no brains! i don;'t know why i kept up with him Im glad my son took after me LOLZ

well physical appearance is not important to me. but if i will be given a chance to have someone with a goodlooks maybe that is great but if god give me someone that is not that beautiful, well thats fine as long as that person will love me no matter what happen..

I have been ina relationship for the last 14 years with a male who is very unattractive on the outside. Im considering ending it because after knowing him this long i see he is just as unattractive on the inside too.

You know my friend, I agree with TheHappyNosePickler, in his comments in your topics. I don't know what are you referring for in this discussion if you hate ugly people and seems that you are the beautiful person that has no dirt and have a perfect personality. I would like to tell you that there is no ugly in the eyes of God. We are all human and need respect for the whole. In relationship I agree that beauty is among the reflection for a person to like someone but as TheHappyNosePickler, says "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". Perhaps, in your eyes he is ugly but for some he is a looking person. I think that is not case for a good relationship. But the inside our heart and how we consider love and relationship that we can bear always in the future...have a great day!

I will give him opportunity to love me,love is not no need to have,in love and love is right someone so I can not force people to not love me, not the ugly face of the barrier for someone else is important to clean his heart beautiful face is not as beautiful as his heart

Hello marianna, Attraction,or being attracted with good personality and appearance is very common.But with long companionship,or within the time of being together,you will find an ugly person more beautiful than those physically attractive ones. Physical appearance will fade with time,but the goodness within will goes on forever. I have seen couples that on the first sight you will have a question,like...the girl is so pretty and the guy is ugly,or it could be vice versa.It's one thing to be sure that,some people choose the beauty inside and not the personal appearance. So,if, i would meet someone who is really a good person,thu he doesn't looks handsome to others,i would give a chance for a love to grow between us...

The concept of beauty as you say is different for all of us. What you find beautiful in one person physically, another person cn find it as ugly. So in order to answer I would say it like this. If I find a person ugly or not appealing to me, initially I would have my second thoughts but if I find that the person as a great personality and is a total sweetheart to me, sure why not give that person a chance!

Choosing a partner for others has different opinion. Some they choose beautiful and good looking but they never think if that person has a good heart. Other choose ungly person because they know they have good heart. Some are with their instinc or so called love at first sight. But what ever, how they choose it either beautiful or ugly and how they feel it as long they know the persons character and personality each one has a change to have relationship to either beautiful or ugly male or female.

If i just want to have a look at a female attraction is the first preference obviously but if ever i want to be in a relation i would not care about the looks i.e. i'll give a chance to ugly person

everyone is equel.if you show love to a ugly persion,you will win one's respect.beause you are a worh heart person.you wil have lots of friend .

Hi there! I would prefer inner beauty in a person, rather than outer beauty. I believe if one has virtues and one has a golden heart and she is broad minded and mature, I would like to be in a relationship with that person. If a person is outwardly beautiful but dumb inside and immature, that will not serve any purpose for me.

If you get to know the personality of the "ugly" person they no longer appear ugly. There are many beautiful "looking" people who are terrible to be around. Give me an ugly person any day if they can make me laugh and do not add too much stress to my life!

I would say important, but not very important. You have to be attracted to the other person at some point, or you will end up with a dull, or short, marriage. Now perhaps a person can convince someone to "fall in love" with them for a short time. But if the person does not love them on their own, at some point that person will wake up one morning, unhappy with where they are, and the relationship will fall apart. I strongly advise against people trying to "convince" or "attract" that other person if that person is really not interested in it. Might work in the short term, but in the long run, that's a good way to get hurt. I've watched it happen.

Being in love, somehow people says it's blind.. and I guess the opposite attraction is so much deeper than what we could see with the bare eyes.. Beauty lies at the eye of the beholder, and if you ask on the first impression to built the chemistry, not for me. I don't really sees a person in how he look, I prefer the feel of it.. I have had numerous changes that I did not pursue my relationship due to the uneasiness with someone that I meet. Well, of course on the first meeting, beside the face that we could not hide further, a person way of dressing and behave are also important to me. Even how good looking if that person, and he came to me, with all sweat around, I don't think I have the least chemistry I would say a person that is presentable, is enough to make an impression to anyone..

Honestly, I don't believe in "love at fist sight". It's hard for me to love someone only because his appearance. Yes, maybe I will say "Waw, he is handsome" and that's all. Definitely I will give chance to ugly person if he love me I find that I see people by his/her attitude. No matter how my friend always say certain guys are super cool and handsome, I don't feel anything because I don't like their behavior. Some people say my bf now ugly, but I don't think so because he kind to me.. People attitude can affect my eyes in seeing their physical appearance

hi, your discussion really is interesting and I would like to share my real life experience with you. I am Indian and Hindu by religion whereas my husband belongs to sikh religion. Sikh means he keeps beard and has long hair on his head. Sikhs are not supposed to cut their hair as it is against their religion. From my childhood, there were certain castes, which I felt I would never marry a boy from those castes and sikh religion was one of them. But my husband who was an senior officer in my office felt attracted towards me and was after me very badly.For almost two years I kept on ignoring him. But I think it was our destiny that suddenly I started noticing his good qualities and gradually my dislike for sikhs with long beard and head gear started disappearing and after almost three years I agreed to marry him and now I find no fault in my husband and nor does he appear to be ugly to me.