How do you handle people that like to spread their bad day
@thenaturaldiva27 (178)
United States
August 16, 2009 11:51am CST
I know someone who whenver she has a bad day she tries her hardest to make sure everyone around her has a bad day.
Unfortunately she's not someone I can just shut out of my life. I have no idea how to deal with her. What do you do?
5 responses
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hey,
If someone is having a bad day, and they try and make me have a bad day, I would just simply ignore them. I mean, I would ignore it when they try and make me have a bad day, I am good at blocking things out. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
16 Aug 09
When it comes to someone like that I just make it a point to understand that it's their sole purpose to make sure that you have a bad day too and I don't let that bother me. Whenever they're in the mood to spread around their bad day, I make sure to distance myself for as long as I possibly can. I feel that by removing myself from that person whenever they're in the mood to spread around their bad mood that I'm letting them know that I'm not going to deal with it and I refuse to go down with them.
@ChrysanTflower (1607)
• Indonesia
16 Aug 09
I will try to make her bad day turn into nice day I will ask him/her what happened then listen to the story, try to give he/she a hope and I will smile and talk about many interesting things, try to make he/she happy and forget his problem a little or give solution.. I think it's better because sometimes we can learn something from that people's story. But if I'm in a bad condition too, I will ignore and stay away from him..
@ramesh1988 (72)
• India
16 Aug 09
i think she is an important part of ur life
i think u should try to make her day happy & good
in this way she will be happy & u will also