what should we consider while choosing a new friend

Pakistan
August 16, 2009 12:18pm CST
When we meet with people and we decide in our heart that this man should be my friend, how can we decide that it will be best for me. At first glance, what should we search in him/her and what should we consider that he/she would be my best friend and will sincere throughout my life. IF any one wants to comment, plz give atleast three clues?
2 responses
• Philippines
16 Aug 09
Well I never choose my friend it's all a matter of coincidence, for examples in a classroom. Were all new faces in the rooms and almost every ones have talk to their seat mates as i look around I saw, in a corner this girl is silent and shy. I come up to here then smile, talk for awhile and introduce each other name. The next day, were both seated near each other and she want me to be her companion wherever she goes. Like during recess, she treat me or else we buy the same snacks. it seem that my likes is also her likes. Then, I ask her that I approach her and the first ones who befriend her. It's so simple you just smile and be comfortable to approach a new person who looks the same with me simple, kind and somehow shy. I think it is the qualities that attracts to me some mystery in the personality of the person interest me more that I make a conversation..
• India
17 Aug 09
I really agree with you neelianoscet, it is a coincidence we get our best friends. but not only smiling faces are good, we want to be patient in choosing a best friend. and also all smiling faces may not be good.
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
16 Aug 09
first of all I see the nature of the person and the good qualities of him so that i can make friendship with him. looks have no importance for me as i think that these people have ego for being beautiful and do not give importance to others who are less in comparision to them. I want my friend to be helpful to me at all times and lastly should come in need when i want them to be near.