Should we hate life when defeated?
By Little_Boy
@Little_Boy (448)
India
August 16, 2009 4:15pm CST
This is the saying that "many people many minds". Every person thinks in his/her own way. Some thinks that losing is as normal as wining at any phase of life. Some says the opposite. They think when you lose, you have no meaning to live in this world. So, sometimes they take deadly decesion. They become very much dejected and stop working thinking that the life has no meaning. Some even think of committing suicide!
In my opinion, life is a very vast arena. Here winning is not the only thing. Sometimes you will win sometimes you will be defeated. When defeated, just try to regain energy to fight back again. Am I wrong?
I have seen many example. Other day I read about a student who committed suicide as she failed in the exam! Another girl took her life as she was raped. One of my relatives have become vagabond as he failed to get a job. What a pity!
8 responses
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
17 Aug 09
You are absolutely right. Everybody has different thinking. But the most important
thing is that all should have the courage to face any odd situation of life.There are ups and downs in life.Al these should be taken easily.Then we can overcome many crucial situations.
By the by my that discussion has been deleted.Thanks for your caution.
@Little_Boy (448)
• India
17 Aug 09
Hmm. You should not be sad because that discussion has been deleted. Should you? In one sense you have been defeated. But you should regain energy and think newer idea to make other discussion. But you thought I was joking because I was a little boy!
Na? I knew well that would be deleted.
Anyway, thanks a lot for your views. I support your opinion. Carry on.
Na? I knew well that would be deleted.
Anyway, thanks a lot for your views. I support your opinion. Carry on.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
17 Aug 09
Hello Little_Boy! I totally agree with you. It really makes me sad to know that there are people who killed themselves just because they were defeated. I can say that in life, you're not always on top. There are times that you will fall but then try to fight and take those hardships as a challenges and lessons in life.
@Little_Boy (448)
• India
17 Aug 09
Hi dear! Welcome back! Where have you been for so long? I missed you soo much. I can see your star rating has been lowered down to 9 from 10. This is for your inactivity in myLot. Don't leave us anymore!
Next, I DO support your view. Yet some people are hopeless. The are pessimistic. They need to overcome this characteristic. Thanks for replying.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hey,
No we should never hate life if we are defeated. On the contrary, we should actually love life that we are defeated, we should always look at our mistakes that caused us to be defeated and then strive to turn out victorious. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@ceejay2009 (107)
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
I strongly disagree with that kind of thinking... How can we be successful if we dont commit mistakes? I mean we learned a lot from every mistakes that we had in life. All the successful inventors and scientist commits mistakes first and eventually ended up successful. So cheer up when your on the other side of the road who knows when time comes you would be as successful as Bill Gates Wee. peace out!
@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
28 Aug 09
When we are in a normal state of mind, we would never have thought of hating life, but sometimes, some people are not strong enough to face failure. That is why other people such as family members and friends play the biggest role to give their moral support for these people to rise and fight back. When they regain their enthusiasm, they will transform to be a different people and view life in different ways. In other words, they will see life in positive ways and if the next time they are defeated, they will be more ready and willing to accept with open hearts. 
@johannawhite (75)
• Canada
16 Aug 09
We should appreciate defeat, it make later successes that much sweeter!
@Little_Boy (448)
• India
17 Aug 09
Exactly. Success after a crashing defeat is so much enjoyable. So we should never quit. Rather we should stick to our aim. This way, some day we must be able to overcome any problem and will have a heavenly smile in our face. Thanks for your reply.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
it is the best feeling in the world is winning, but we can not be winners all the time. it is a natural reaction that we get hurt when we lose, but life is not just winning, we have to give chance to others to win and to have or taste this good feeling. losing is teaching us to do more and to push ourselves more. losing also makes us a better person to pick up the pieces and start all over again. some people take this drastic actions for sometimes they dont have people to cheer them up when they lose and sometimes it depends also to the up bringing. some parents force their children to winning and get scolded if they dont win. so when they are adult they no longer know how to face defeat
