A few real friends or a million fake ones, which would you prefer?

yes that is absolutely right, I can't argue with you over this one my dear friend slogger because you know exactly what you are talking about. It appears that you must have had quite a bit of experience at some point in your life in dealing with fiends. I didn't get out the nest until I was kind of old but when I happen see a bird fly by carrying a great message I can sho nuff spot it out in a hurry. So thanks for participating and please add me as a friend if you feel like we'll hit if off pretty well! Happy mylot!

Thank you Quita, I feel your kind warm spirit and I am going to ask you to please add me as a friend. I have a feeling that you and I will be getting along just great. You are right, most of us would probably prefer to have real friends over fake ones if we actually had our choice in the matter. But sad thing is that no everybody has a choice depends upon their situation. God bless you!

ha ha ha very well said and sure very right as well if u r well off and u have LOADS of money, u will be surrounded with LOT of Friends who will be onlu aiming at ur money Take care

Hello Cupid74, thank you for the huggs. You've answered quite well in the discussion and there's really not much more that need to be said concerning it. If you want to know of a few of my views, simply read a few of the post that I've either posted before or after yours. I think that anyone with a logical mind should want to choose the real friends over the fake ones but then again, it takes all kinds to make up the world. I'm sure that if you or I were to instantly hit the lottery, we'd both have so many fake friends that we wouldn't be be able to keep up with them all Take care dear and keep mylotting!

I'm grateful to you.My very very cordial hugs to you.

Sure here's a hugg in advance, you know it takes so little to be a true friend Bhanusb. Why isn't there more love and caring goign on in this big old world? please add me as a friend if you like my spirit. I really like your's already and we've only exchange a few words. I may not be able to respond to each one of your discussions but we can always love and support each other in spirit, have a great day, huggs, huggs, huggs! Thanks for stopping by.

Hello my friend ranviruchauchan, Let me start out by saying that I do believe in God. But that is where you and I may differ on a few things at. When God made brothers, he created something that is so special and wonderful that few if anything should ever be able to stand against it. This is just my upbringing and how I saw my parents teaching us love between each other. Even today each one of my siblings and I are very close. A few of them are scattered out. But in my heart, I still hold true to the old ways, which is "Love thy brother". Now as far as friendship goes. well let's just say to me, that is a horse of a different color. While it's still important and something to be cherished. I feel that nothing should come before family. I may be wrong but I feel that the bond of family should be stronger than everything else. This is just how I was brought up to believe. Thanks for sharing,, ,We can always try to learn something from one another even if we don't always agree!

its ok, no worries. We all brothers are nice bonding and i am completely agree with you but there are many things which i cannot share with them which i can share with my friends.I am agree with all of your points but it may very between different kind of people. Happy mylotting!!

thanks for the huggs CJ, I like what you had to sa To be honest I think there must be a lot of us that are in the same boat. But we do what we need to do to make it from day to day. Trying not to step on too many toes. Besides I always think that everyone is here for a reason. So even if they are fake, there is something that we are supposed to learn from them. Happy mylot!

Indeed my friend, there is always something to be learned from every situation. Good or bad situation isn't the situation, it is the way the situation is looked upon.

Yes indeedie, you are absolutely right.... Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this very important discussion daryjane, i think at a mininmum it will cause us all to begin to think a little bit more seriously about our friendships and to reexamine who we are calling a friend. A real friend would never turn their backs on us, don't ya know? Please add me as a friend if you feel that I'm worthy of your friendship. May God bless you!

Don't worry my friend, something tells me that soon you are going to have more real friends than what you will know what to do with. I can feel you have a very kind warm heart all the way over here. Please add me as a friend if you feel that I'm deserving of your friendship. I hope to hear from you soon and thanks for responding.

Yes, I know where exactly where you are coming from Margajoe. In that case you need to just get from them whatever it is that you think you can get and then go on your merry way, don't worry because you will have real friends to show up some day. A real friend is someone that won't take advantage of you. Please add me if you believe that I'm worthy of your friendship. God bless you.

sorry, I made a mistake. sent the wrong place and seems I can't delete it.

Yes Opal I can certainly relate with what you're saying and I want to thank you for the fine comment. Hope your friendships last for a lifetime, even if they may only be few. One or two really good ones is really all that you need. God bless you and I hope to hear from you again sometimes. Thanks for coming through to my rescue. you are loved and thought of more than you will ever know! keep mylotting! Because you write terrific comments that I really enjoy reading!

thanks for your response trisha. You know I really do appreciate ya. The thing is that you responded in such a manner as just what I was looking for. Not to say that there was anything wrong with the way that anyone else here has responded but you actually broke the discussion down and you even gave me a few of the details concerning friendships that you'd encountered in the past. Without really putting it all out there. I like the way you handled yourself in this and even though I was feeling kind of sleepy and tired during this whole discussion. You've really helped me to bring me back around. You know when one is reading over his or her discussion and it's kind of like, everyone is really saying the same thing, it can tend to get a bit monotonous after a while. But I want to thank you. For giving me something to think about and a comment well worth reading. Great jobI do hope to hear more from you and I would be honored if you could add me as a friend.

I like that Yandongpolice A friend in need is a friend in deed! I've heard that somewhere before in my past and I guess it must be still true of the present. God bless youl, take care and stay friendly at all times. One great secret concerning friendship that I learned, if this, if you want to have a lot of friends, then show yourself friendly. Believe me it works like a charm every time. See you around, my friend!

That is so true. Well according to the mylot game it's a good thing to have a lot of friends, so we have to play the game wisely, we all will know inside of our hearts if we have true friends or not. A true friendship isn't something that can be faked. As it's like a rare and precious jewel, we come across few real friends in life. Please add me as a friend if you'd like. I would love to see more of you around and to hear more of your godly wisdome. Bless you friend!

Thanks for sharing Hatley, that was just beautiful and i'm glad that you made it back safely. You know we all have ups and downs sometimes in life. But the downs are only around to make us stronger and better. They say what don't kill us make us stronger. Anyhow I'm glad that the friends you'd made at mylot showed strong support once you came back. You know Hately, often there are more people that love us than what we will ever really know. Not all are fake friends but the good ones surely will come to our rescue won't they?

Yeah, I hear you loud and clear on this one zoey7879. And you gotta do what you gotta do. Personally I would have been just wee bit hesitant about having all of those fairweather friends in the first place. But you know we live and learn Zoey, and really that's about all that we can do. On social networking sites, it's a very different thing. Luckily most of the sites can be used for whatever purpose we as the user choose to use it for, most of the time. I guess it simply comes down to knowing what we are getting ourselves into. For me Zoey, i will call just about anybody a fried but most of my real friends will always know who they are. take care and have a good day. ( tip of the day: A good understanding between two friends is one of the best things in the world) Please add me here as a friend if you don't mind.

Oh yes Letitia, I truly know what you mean....... thanks for sharing, happy mylot!

That is absolutely right Seanbryan. And what you've said was simply beautiful. Real friends are probably harder to find than a needle in a haystack but once you find one, oh my, you'd never want to let it go. I can probably just about count all of my real friends on one hand. And yet I've heard that in life if you even get one or two real friends you aren't doing too bad!Simply due to the fact that they are so hard to find. Please add me as a friend.

yes I agree with you mtvtv. Oh well, I wanted to write something more prolific down here for you to read but now I'm starting to get kind of tired and when the brain starts to feeling this way, all that i can say is, thanks for your response. You're right and I agree. So maybe this time I will just say, we'll have to finish the discussion later. Take care and please add me as a friend if you feel that I'm worthy of your friendship. God bless you

Thank you friend, that speaks volumes for you. Please be sure to add me as a friend and remember I'm here whenever you want to chat. Have a lovely day!