Succcess and how to achive and maintain it.

Hello my friend rajupaul Ji, I think, you are easily moved by others. Recently I posted some thing about World's 2nd Richest person "WARREN-BUFFET' as per following link : http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2119524.aspx. You may pick up something. I would bring you something from my store, which may help you to gain confidence in you . [b]"SATSANG If one can practice/implement any of the following, one will owe the whole world, free from all worldly bickering: - (A) ”If You Can balance / stable your mind, when they are otherwise around you and at the same time blaming you”. (b) “If you have belief on yourself, when others have doubt on you and at the sane time you strongly oppose their belief of their doubt” (c) “If you can wait for Good / Bad days embark and you do not loose patience/get disheartened of waiting”. (d) “Everyone is deceiving you and you are not”. (e) “ Every body hates you and you do not, at the same time, you are not proud to be ‘good’ and ‘wise’. (f) “ If you Can dream, but do not allow them to overpower you, and you Can ‘think’ but at the same time, do not live into dreams of ‘thinking”. (g) “If you can welcome ‘gains’ and ‘defeat’ with open hearts and they do not unbalance your mind”. (h) “If you Can accept your own words in twisted/mutilated /distorted form happily by ‘fools’ and they do not involve you in their bad plans”. (i) “ If you can bear, the items made by you ‘raised to ashes, for which you took whole life to build them , and at the same time you can once again order your tired hands to restart making”. (j) “ If you can take one chance to reduce your gains in your life, ‘loose’ or ‘gain’ (k) “If you can, after loosing every bit in your life, get ready fresh to obtain the same with total energy from all corners of your body and mind, without uttering a word even”. (l) “ If you Can compel your heart, mind and limbs, when they ARE so tired and refuse to accept any thing, except that your ‘belief’ and ‘desire’ to order them that they have to march forward and not falling back”. (m) “ If you can roam in crowds, but do not allow your ‘thoughts’ and’abilities’ to wander stray, and you live with emperor, but do not neglect common man “. (n) “ If you ARE unharmed by people loving you and people hating you”. (o) “ I you Can respect everybody within the limits, at the same time nobody”. (p) “ IF YOU REMEMBER THE UNEXQUSED MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE, AND EXPLAIN THE REASON FOR THE SAME”. Then, the whole world belongs to you only and every thing that exists on this, at the same time you fall under the category of ‘ACTUAL INSAN’, which is greatest achievement in the life than any thing else”. (OM)"[/b] May God bless you and have a great time.

Set clear long-term and short-term goals. Make sure that you that you're motivated by and committed to the goals you've set for yourself so that you're willing to take the necessary steps to successfully reach those goals. Stay focused on your goals once you've set them. It's easy to stray off course, but by keeping your goals in sight, you can work towards them every day. Overcome obstacles. No one ever said that reaching your goals and obtaining success was easy. If you truly desire to achieve success in life, you must be willing to overcome obstacles on the way to reaching your goals and dreams. Step Approach your goals and dreams with a positive attitude. Having a negative attitude and thinking that you can't accomplish your goals and be successful in life will only slow you down. Stay positive even if the road gets tough, and you'll be that much closer to achieving success. Be flexible and creative. Things may not always turn out the way you'd hoped or planned, but by being flexible and creative, you'll be able to think of new, more efficient ways to reach your goals. Communicate effectively. This isn't a one man show, so knowing how to be clear and kind when dealing with others is a skill that will greatly serve you on your path to success. Take care of your mind and body. Eat healthily, exercise regularly, get adequate sleep and allow your mind to rest from time to time so that you'll be in top physical and mental shape when pursuing success.

Patience, hardwork and your faith will help you achieve success and maintain by sharing it to others.

success and default is only the line between them,maybe as you said,somebody have no confidence,so he lost the chance of success.i have make attempt to do more thing,but i find i often give up because i have lost confidence for my aim.so i found if i adhere to do it,maybe i can see the hope of success,as i learn english,i often listen it time and time again,i could not understand what it mean,i think that it is very difficult,so i don't work hard with it,maybe i learn to tell me,believeing i can learn it at last.

To achieve sucess, you must accept risk. There was a famous quote, I forgot who, but he once said, "If you risk nothing, you risk everything". Accept failure during your hard work. Accept sucess, knowing that all your hard work paid off. I hope this will be in your mind as you try and reach for sucess also.

What is the success? Could you give a definition? I think, you achive your goals, which is success. People have diverse objective. However, you should not except your success too much. Do your what you could reach. Not only work hard,but also fortune.

Hey, I think that in order to be successful you must actually try your hardest, not just sit back in a chair the whole day, you need to actually do something that will guarantee that you will be successful in life. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!

In my opinion, the secret to success is to have faith and keep trying. Set small goals that lead to the larger goal, Learn all that you can on the way; pay attention to those around you that have both succeeded as well as those who have failed. Determination is a must, if you simply settle for what you have and where you are and never try to get farther ahead, you will remain where you are. And I think that the most important is very simply put..DON'T QUIT.

success can best be maintained with a moderate lifestyle, the reason why most celebrities go bankrupt and cashless is because they have gotten used to the flamboyant lifestyle and when the money stop coming they find it difficult to cope with their extravagant lifestyle.

Along with all these we need some good luck, which will take us to that pinnacle of life.

Ten guidelines for successful 1. Aperson's determination, as the burning of love in general, is a great many people to move energy. 2. As long as the efforts will succeed. With this faith, and will certainly be able to succeed in their careers. 3. People do not use if the power will not be up to their own; as long as the use of it, it will burst out endlessly. To be the cause of the achievements of a people, we will find strength. When a man burst out of his amazing power, he would have self-confidence and belief. 4. Always successful in their own hesitation or fear of failure, and will accomplish nothing. Because he will never be able to tap their inner strength Department. 5. Should have the courage to abandon the self, the only way to disrtgard the success or failure, to move ahead toward the goal. 6. Pray do not pray to the gods, but the success of prayer. Do not count on not relying on those things. 7. When you select the value of a goal, and work hard, the helping hand will be there at your side. 8. Every effort will be successful, not successful because you did not go to practice, not to work on. 9. No matter the efforts, when your aim is only to its own interests, reputaion or face, you can not play on the real strength of their own. Because it is not the cause of devotion to the input of. 10. Only for their own goals of hard sweat, and in the successful approaches, will be moved. The larger the target, the greater will be moved, Do not give up, because life is to challenge people's life. As long as your efforts from the right motive, there is no impossible things. Encountered in the event of failure, will bring to you the proceeds to our advantage.

You have described most of all the necessities for being successful.Yes, we can consider a factor and perhaps it's not in the hands of oneself.And that is luck or we can say destiny.Of course,we should not count if the most important and apply the real ones to our efforts.Isn't it true?

Personal effort is the first important thing. And I think you should have a good chance and good ability. There are a lot of projects which can fit for you. However if you don't have the ability you will not get them.

I think that the courage is also important ,when you do what other people have not done before,or do what other few people is doing. THEN you will gain success,of course you should make schedule for it and you just have also good luck.

hi there rajupaul, that's a nice list of ten good qualities. Allow me to add another quality, courage. If you did notice rajupaul, for most people, prior to the first endeavor, they are probably not living a very comfortable life. But with some hard work and dedication, they start to carve out the life they want. With enthusiasm and and commitment they become better and better at what they do everyday, until they can't be any better. They have utmost confidence when doing what it is they do best. Then how come they stop at this minuscule success? Why is it that they convince themselves that this is what they actually wanted and not the original desire? I believe that now they have a lot more to lose than when they first started out. They have trapped themselves in the comfort zone, and closed any possible exit out. This is when they need courage to go into the unknown. How is this different compare to the many years they have been aggressively progressing in their field. Well, this is only the second time they venture into the unknown, but it is the second time, not the first. And we stand in wonderment why the second time is harder than the first. Rajupaul, I believe true strength is from truly believing, and not wishful daydreaming. Its from practical dream-achieving and not hopeful goal-planning. Having said this, there are probably more values and principles to add to this list, but to be sure, wisdom truly has to be there, for it is a midway milestone, the address of the launchpad to your inner and outer space command center.