Email to an old flame

Hi! In my opinion that's the problem with text messages, which can't explain our emotions. I had similar problems for several times with my boyfriend. In our case the problem was solved only by talking personally and explaining these things to one another. So now we try to share all the important or controversial information personally. Good luck!

I am sure it was just a defense mechanism for him. Even though you say you aren't mad (and i beleive you, i woudln't be either, it was from far in the past..and at a time when you weren't together...if they were recent or during a time you were together, i think you would have every right to be mad) but i am sure he just thought or assumed it would be a big, huge deal to you. There are many women out there who tend to go off the dramatic deep end whenever anything like this happens, and unfortunatly those types of women are portrayed frequently on TV and in the media, so many times men are led to beleive that ALL women are going to act this way. I am sorry it caused issues between the two of you, and i am sure you will be able to work it out. I would maybe start by aknowledging and thanking him for being supposrtive, or overlooking of any problems you may have brought up about your ex in the past, and re-inforce the fact that these emails are not an issue with you. On a side note....personaly, if he asked you to go through and clean out his email inbox....he should have thought about the fact that there might be something in there that might raise a flag...

He was just being defensive and texting him about it was not the best thing to do, although it was a harmless, but if you would have told him personally about it, he would have see your face to see it did not bother you. Texting something is hard to determine how you are coming across. It will pass.