I have a problem relating with my mom!

Hello, how close between you and your mom? if you want to share with your mom but she is too complicate to understand you then you have to choose another person to talk to, such as your own boyfriend or best friend that you can trust. It is not your fault or someone else but you have to deal with whoever that is close and share with you now. sometimes you never share or talk to your mom since you were young so that's why it makes you feel uncomfortable with talking to her

Do you actually want to share things with her, or do you feel uncomfortable opening up to her? Sometimes people don't really get on with their mums until they have left home, and then for some reason it is easier. I think the answer is that everyone is different, but you could try talking to her and see what happens.

It is not really anyone's fault. that is just how the two of you are. My daughter was very private about her relationships, although we got along very well, and we still do get along well, even though she is married and far away. She just was pretty shy, and I am a bit outspoken. That is okay. You can both be different and still get along.

It is hard sometimes to relate to mothers. It's a problem for me to talk to my mother about personal matters too. My parents are divorced and my mother insists that all men are evil and only want one thing. It's a pain to share a relationship problem with her and then listen to her men bashings. What I find helps to watching TV together. When we watch TV, we talk about what's going on in the movie and really get to talk.

hi mizfel hi have you ever just sat down and said mom I need to talk.I bet she would be thrilled.most parents start to feel left out when their kids become teens its like the teens think their mom was never a' teenager herself. try it it might surprise you and your mom. she could be glad you confided in her.

Its not your fault at all. If you're not comfortable with talking to your mom about things then that's ok. I think that she would rather you talk to someone about it instead of keeping it bottled inside. Its hard for me to talk to my mom about certain things as well and I think that she understands. But id have to admit also her and I are close. Its just hard to talk about certain things because of how she views things and mainly I just talk to my friends about it because they listen better and they would keep it to themselves. Because sometimes I can tell my mom things and she will go and tell everyone about it. Don't worry about it though it is not your fault at all.