someone close to you or just anyone dying

New Zealand
August 17, 2009 7:40pm CST
Hi there Mylotters & Friends, If someone close to you has died whether it be your Father, Mother, Brother, Sister, Uncle, Grandfather or just a friend how do you manage to cope? Last Night/Early this Morning I felt so lost without my Dad around and hearing that one of my friends might be dead soon this just made me feel a little more sad. My Dad has been dead nearly 11 months and I feel that other than when I have got my Psychologist I don't feel I can Grieve. Last Night/Early this Morning I felt that if I scrapped the words God and Dead it might hurt some more. Sorry if this offends anybody it's not meant to, it's my way of grieving and I can't find any other way else to deal with it. But I am having Counseling and on Medication also. Catch ya later pretty_babe
1 response
Polly1
@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
19 Aug 09
I am so very sorry Pretty_Babe, I lost my husband 3 years ago. I have had to deal with other close family and friends dying too. The thought of my husband dying was my worst nightmare and then it came true. I don't know how I got thru those first few days, let alone the first year but I did. I still miss him so much, I still cry at times. Time passing does help, it helps ease the pain and sorrow. You never stop missing them. There will come a time when you start living again, your dad would want you too. Remember the good times, and know that he is watching over you and loves his pretty babe. Take care, hope you feel better. Also know that you hurting yourself would break your daddies heart, try to focus on something else.