Husbands!

United States
August 18, 2009 11:28pm CST
My husband and I have been married for a little over 2 years. We have been down a really rocky road, and things used to be very up and down in our relationship (mainly because I got pregnant twice in those two years LOL)... Anyways, there are certain things that he does that really gets on my nerves, and he knows he does it, but he just keeps on doing it! Examples: drinking too much on weekends, spending too much money, not helping out enough around the house, constantly asking me to do things for him that he could easily do himself, and pretty much taking care of him half the time lol... What are things your husband does that gets on your nerves?
2 responses
mrshughes
@mrshughes (352)
• Philippines
19 Aug 09
We all have ups and downs. We made mistakes. My husband like to get drunk also...like u it gets on my nerves. Husband likes to have full attentions all the time. We argue and fight over simple things...at the end of the day we forgive each other. One thing i can tell u is...he keeps doing it because he knows u love him and he knows u will forgive him. Life is not a fairy tale. To be a mother and a wife is never easy...but the reward is worth fighting! The reward is the real happiness when u look at ur kids and ur husband...and u see the love in there eyes!
hmfryklund
@hmfryklund (389)
• United States
21 Aug 09
Awww I liked that lol, it made me smile! I definitely agree with that, that the reason why they do what they do, besides knowing they can get away with it lol, is because they know that we love them unconditionally and we always forgive them because of that. Yes, the reward is definitely worth fighting for, even though it can get so hard at times! I hate arguing, but sometimes it is good to get the stress out in to the open lol.
marnice
@marnice (60)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Hi me and my husband just celebrated 1 year as husband and wife but were 3 years living together on and off before we got married and now we have a 7 months old daughter. For 4 years of being together there were many times were fighting. We have so many problems we encountered specially now that were married we have so many debts as of now because before I the only one working and my husband is on going apprenticeship so we fight a lot because of money before but at the end of the day we talk...