what should you do if you have confuse about your friend?
By dengyl
@dengyl (59)
China
August 19, 2009 1:59am CST
I have a very good friend in school .We are together almost everyday and we talk about everything .But one day , I suddenly found that even if we still were together , we talk less and less .Finally , we have nothing to talk .I am afriad that I will lose this friend ,so I am very worried .That day , she seemed happy , so I complained of her ignoring me in a joking tone.To my surprise,She listened very carefully and explained to me .That time I know that comunicating with others is the most efficient way to solve probelms.
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4 responses
@versio9 (329)
• Philippines
21 Aug 09
try to talk of something else if both of you are not talking to each other. talk of an upcoming movie both of you are looking forward to. or lend her a book you can talk about. if you can't talk directly about something, then don't force the issue, talk about something else. there are other ways to build the connection.
@babyreyn (934)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
That is true. Well I have a different story to tell.. I have a best friend, we met during our college days. Since first year we were together, we eat in one plate, I stayed in their apartment, we share each other jokes and secrets and so. After 3 years of being together, he met a guy whom she fell in love with. Worst come to worst, that guy dont like me, to the point she got my bestfriend away from me. Until we graduated I dont have any communication with her. I was trying to find her but I cant find her anymore.
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
19 Aug 09
I tried to be fixed on it as usual.
Yes, I will find out from other people.
If I may suggest, not too close with anyone. Because the closer, more and cause friction. Keep a safe distance.
@mrshughes (352)
• Philippines
19 Aug 09
Ive learned to confront people what my feelings are regarding any matterrs. I always ask if i feel something is not right. And its working for me good. It solves most of my problems. I always ask and listen to friends. In that way, i have no more doubts.
