If your spouse still calls his/her Ex....

Dictating who your partner can and cannot speak to is never a good idea. My boyfriend still talks to his ex from time to time and I don't really give it any thought. I know I can trust him, so I don't feel insecure no matter who it is he's talking to. Those of you who responded that you have a problem with this and that there would be a fight if they didn't stop talking to their ex really need to examine yourselves and your relationship. If you can't trust your partner to speak to an ex without it turning into something more than speaking and friendship then there is something wrong. Just because he/she is with you does not mean that they are not an independent person who can make their own choices and have their own friends.

that kind of thing is not really ok with me. if i found out about it, i'd have a fit for sure. i think its not proper for anyone who is already committed and married at that to have contact with any exes, even if its not that frequent. first, i'd tell my partner its not ok with me. and if he respect and love me enough he will never do such a thing. but if he still do it, we will for sure have a fight.

I don't feel insecure for sure. But, at the same time I don't like it when my spouse does it. I will feel like that because I am possessive about him. At the same time I belive that it is his personal matter and he has all rights to decide whether he has to talk to his ex or not. I will follow it if he says me not to talk to my ex.

For me it's not a big deal if they are co-worker,or they work in same company.But aside from that,why...what's the reason for calling each other?The gift is somehow understandable if there is any occassion,but the calls were too questionable. I am a married woman,and i myself don't see it as appropriate situation having contact with my ex. As a married woman,i think i should have to pay respect for my husband.And one way of respecting him is to avoid any unnecessary contact with my ex or to any previous guys who have admired me before or i have been into relationship before. And,it's one way of avoiding gossips too....or even worst temptation. Not even saints can avoid temptation when drives by their own lusts.

that's fine with me as long as they don't go beyond the bounderies of friendship. sometimes ex's can still be considered friends and reliable too and not allowing them to be your friends again is a sign of pride and a bit insensitive for your partner. they maybe communicating now but she/he is yours by marriage.