Who is the most important person in your life right now?
By realan
@realan (518)
United States
August 19, 2009 10:00am CST
For me right now, it's my 9 year old daughter. My world revolves around her and everything I do is for her. Of course, my husband, Mom, Godson and best friend are also way up there as the most important people in my life at this moment and always. Who is the most important person in your life right now? (After your religious beliefs.)
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16 responses
@marshiemallows (1010)
• Philippines
19 Aug 09
i love my parents. though at the moment i can't deny how i feel extremely bad about how my mother doesn't let me enjoy my teenage life by giving me what i need. it's so sad that i really have to work for it. well, i want this one thing and my father had already said yes but my mother pretends that she forgot about it and i really don't want to bring up the topic over and over again because i get shy too you know.
oh well, i really can't do anything but work and work. that's why i'm spending more time doing online jobs now. but still i love my mother the way i love my father. it's just that i don't really get her at times.
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@realan (518)
• United States
27 Aug 09
That's the thing about family, sometimes you don't like them or what they do, but you will always love them. It's hard being a teenager and hard to understand why your parents act they way they do. Hopefully one day your mom will explain why she is doing this. Cherish your teenage years, time goes by too quickly. Thanks for the comment and good luck.
@bluehibiscus (702)
• United States
19 Aug 09
My fiance, my mother, and my sister are the greatest people on Earth to me.
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@smooch091784 (973)
• Philippines
19 Aug 09
Well, it's just hard to pick only one person that is important in my life right now, because my family is the one that is the most important, not right now, but all the time. And so with my friends that I trust and care most.. And hopefully the right guy in time.. 
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@realan (518)
• United States
19 Aug 09
It's definitely hard. What I meant by right now...is at this stage in my life. Before my daughter and husband, the most important people were still my family but more friends too, etc. And when we are younger we always think our friends are the most important people in our lives. And when you have children your whole prespective on life changes. I think it's a hard question, since no one really wants to place one person over another. Thanks for you comment!
@meandmy3 (2227)
• United States
19 Aug 09
My husband, our relationship is the most important thing in my life, if we do not have a good relationship if we do not have a loving home loving marriage we can not provide that to our children. By placing my husband first I am in fact placing my children first. If you get what I am saying. He is first to me. Now do not take this wrong. I take care of my children and yes their needs come first but my husband is the most important person in my life. After all without him I would not have children.
@realan (518)
• United States
19 Aug 09
I agree. I think this is a hard question, as we don't want to put anyone above anyone else. Our whole families are the most important people in our lives. My daughter is the most important at this stage in my life (not to put my husband down in any way LOL! but he probably would say the same thing! and she is such a daddy's girl.), because she needs me the most. She is not old enough to take care of herself yet. And I'm not saying I love one more than the other, as that wasn't what I intended in my question. Of course, without my husband I wouldn't have her. But your children will always be your children. You gave birth to them or adopted etc... and you will always have a bond unlike any other with anyone else. Thanks so much for your great response!
@malpoa (1214)
• India
19 Aug 09
Me and myself.That might sound quite selfish to you. But I sadi so beacuse so many people have taken advantage of my giving preference to others. I have indeed learned a lesson, though very late. Right now I give priority to myself, my happiness. All other things comes only second to it. Itmight change after achild is born but still I will not sideline my life for him/her.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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19 Aug 09
The most important person in my life at the moment would be all my children as they have never let me down and even when they are bad they are always going to be here for me unlike others that come and go.They say blood is thicker than water and yes they are right.Next would be my mum.
@incredibleDNA (1742)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
Of course, every mother's pride is her kid. However, there are two most important person that I value most in my life. They are my five year old daughter and her daddy.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
my son...
i'm a single mom.........
i raised my son alone...he's now 14 years old.
he only has me, and I only have home..
we have each other.that's all...
he is so precious to me that i would do practically anything for him........
you know it's too hard to find the right word to describe how much you love your kid.....
no exact words can truly define it!
@hmfryklund (389)
• United States
20 Aug 09
I would have to agree with you and say that the most important person/s in my life would definitely have to be my two little daughters, my world and my husband's world totally revolve around them and I try everything in my power to make life good for them, and show them how much we love them, every day. There is so love like the love you have for your own child :)
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
20 Aug 09
My grandson and my niece are the two most important people in my life right now, they love me so much and show me every chance they get, they make me feel so good I live for them, I would do anything in this world for them, like you said my daughter/mom/other family member are way up there as well, but my grand and niece are at the very top of that list,great post thank you.
@bingchen (1119)
• China
19 Aug 09
maybe i think it is my boyfriend,he always leave in my heart,although he left me for long time now,but i always miss him,like smell fo flowers slowly dup into my
heart,i hope that i can forget him and find the other lover,whatever i would be
together with my lover,but i could not accept their love,maybe he always live in my
heart for the rest of my life,nobody can replace his position in my mind,maybe this is love'es meaning,lover between them could not live together at last,so i leave him in my life.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Aug 09
Hello realan,
My kids are my life,they are my inspiration,my everything.
There is no time that i didn't think about my kids future,their welfare.In everything i do i always sees that it won't do any harm to my kids,or won't hurt them.
Lot of things change when we think about our kids as our priority.
As a mother,there is no worth dying for than my kids.When giving birth is a life risking to all woman...then,i can risk my life for the seond time again..for my kids.
