sometimes i just hate how my life goes
@marshiemallows (1010)
Philippines
August 19, 2009 10:26am CST
i feel really upset right now especially because i need money to do something my parents(specifically my MOTHER!) should have done for me. and it's a sad thing my mother is too thrifty. even if my father actually works for the money and he already said yes, my mother tries to trick me into forgetting about what i was asking for. and i don't want to remind her all the time because i think it's wrong to.
well, i've never been this upset. how about you? have you been into the same situations?
5 responses
@malpoa (1214)
• India
19 Aug 09
Some situatons happen in life which are inevitable, there is no choice but to face and deal with it. I sometimes look at life, and feel that my life has been so meaningless. There are so many things that I wanted to do and achieve, but sad to say I have fulfilled only a few of it.
Now either it is too late to do some things or because of some other reasons I am not being able to do...It is quite depressing at times..I used to blame others for my ordeal but now I realise that there is no point n doing that. Best thing is never to expect anything from anybody...When you expect and you do not get what you expected, you feel angry and sad at the same time. But consider this, if you do not expect and you get something you will be able to be more happy.
When I am down and feel so disturbed about the way things are going in life I curse about my birth, I ask myself why I were born...Inspite of all the hardships, we have to find a way to resolve the problem because life just doesnt stop all on a sudden, it goes on and you have to live till your number comes...so look at it positively and think of the all possible measures you can adopt to resolve it.
good luck
@marshiemallows (1010)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
thanks for sharing. i hope i see life someday the way you do.
@Sonadora (356)
• United States
19 Aug 09
Believe me I understand that it sucks when your parents can't or won't provide the things a parent should. I have learned that you can't always depend on your parents. I learned that the hard way. The only person you can ever depend on 100% is yourself. So if it is something you really need to do, then forget about your parents and come up with the money yourself. Yes, it's hard, but they'll respect you more and you'll respect yourself more.
@marshiemallows (1010)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
thanks a lot for the advice. it uplifted me knowing that this thing i'm upset about right now can actually be a way for me to prove something to myself.
@sunilparthan (6302)
• India
19 Aug 09
hi dear friend dont feel upset for any thing why because enjoy your life see life is like an ice cream it will be enjoyed before it melts right so enjoy it. thank you
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hey,
Yea I also sometimes hate how my life is going. Because sometimes we just can't really live our life the way we want to. It is just almost impossible, because so many bad things happen. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
20 Aug 09
Money issues can cause a lot of tension within the family sometimes. I don't know what I would do if I were in your position. I wouldn't ant to keep asking for it either. I guess the best advice I can give is to try and stay calm. Stay consitant and just say when you need it.
